Elm88 wrote:

I think a problem i face is that i fear if i let go or i dont visualize consistently or daily, the Universe will think that I do not want her anymore. I think this created alot of resistance and need. Also her responses are mixed and although i did manifest the contact happening, it is not how I imagined it to be (her telling me she want us back etc).

How do we overcome the "need" of doing visualizations etc daily out of fear that if we dont do it, the thing wont come?

If you're doing your visualizations based on "fear" the Universe will think you don't want her anymore, that's the wrong approach. It's just like ordering something in a catalog. You place your order and then you wait for it to arrive. You don't constantly call up Amazon (or whatever store) and tell them constantly what you ordered. It's already done, they're working on sending it to you the best way possible and the quickest. Stop doing it if it doesn't feel good and bring you joy. You need to learn to trust the process and not doubt it.