I'm so confused...today I visualized the relationship status on his gfs page being removed..and it literally was..it's gone..I got so excited thinking they broke up until someone sends me a screen shot a few hours later showing me his page that they got engaged together..the exact OPPOSITE of what I visualized..WTF

Thank you for responding I really appreciate it. But it's clear to me now that I guess we're not meant to be..within one month she was able to get what I waited 2 years for..and from an LOA standpoint, I was NOT expecting this AT ALL. No way. How can I even possibly still believe seeing that she really has a ring on her finger and with me he just talked about it all the time but never did it. He left me, blocked me out of his life and 2 weeks later gets with another girl..they've been together for a little over 1 month & this? I don't understand. Why is he allowed to be so happy and have everything after doing what he did to me. I didn't get a chance to post my story..but that's basically it now in a nut shell. Two years together of a great relationship, talking marriage kids moving together and how lucky he was to have me and so blessed and I'm his soulmate and I'm the one..to one day we're done and there's another girl and he hid it from me and led me on and when I found out he blocked me and hasn't spoken to me since. He led me on for months. Telling me how much he loves me and wants only me and he had another girl on the side for who knows how long. I trusted him so much. I don't see how I created that..and especially not this. I know my post is so negative but it's impossible not to be right now. Every time I see a pic of theirs I think how weird they seem together and it's not gonna last..and then boom, engaged. IN A MONTH OF A DATING, although who knows how long she's really been around. I'm heartbroken.

Btw, it has been 2 months since we have spoken, he cut off all contact with me as soon as I asked him about this girl, and then they made it official 2 weeks after. So we dated for 2 years, she showed up randomly on his fb wall one day, I asked him who she was, I was blocked from fb and he deleted our pictures, he told me nothing was going on with her, and then I never heard from him again. They got together 2 weeks later, it has now been a little over a month since they got together, two months since we have spoken, and today they got engaged. This is a man who told me every single day how lucky and blessed he was to have me, that I was his true love and soulmate, and that Im the one for him and any mushy thing you could ever think of, he has said it to me. The kicker is that he has been cheated on by every single gf he has ever been with, I was the first to ever be faithful to him, I knew how against he was cheating and he's a good guy and I trusted him very much. Then he ends up doing this to me, when I believed he loved me very much, and never would have expected this. If it matters at all. It just makes me not believe in anything, I don't know what to believe bc the exact opposite of what I intended for is going on. I really thought they wouldn't last and he would come back one day

Last edited by LaughBella14 (3/10/2016 3:34 am)

What is a wishy? That sounds right up my alley lol.

We live in an infinite, limitless universe where we each have within us the ability to create whatsoever we desire. The problem is, most people are unable to focus purely and consistently enough- and to the exclusion of all other possibilities. I know you say you weren't expecting this, but you were also pretty certain you wanted to rehash your old story with us too. And bringing those things up only increases the momentum of what you DON'T want. If you think back to your most dominant thoughts of late, there has to have been SOME negative momentum going. Because everything that you experience is a DIRECT match to what you've been vibrating. If you believe in LOA, which all of us here certainly do, then there's simply no other story to explain away the situation.. There is just no way that this could be a complete blindside shock to you. The engagement itself perhaps, but you had to have been putting some serious momentum and focus into his current relationship. Is this the case?

Last edited by Cherished (3/10/2016 5:49 am)

Oh & btw a wishy is those little white things that grow in the ground that you pick up and blow on and make a wish and all the little white fluffy thingies fly off of it and into the air lol

You have to take a step back and really see that what you vibrate out is what you get. And what you vibrated out, you got! Unless you can see the truth in that it's difficult to proceed smoothly 😘