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I'm following the exercises in Veronica's 25 day challenge but I have found I cannot always complete all of them every day due to other committments that I have.
I find visualizations come naturally, and they are no longer a chore. I still try to practice daily gratitude and I always look at pictures of him and us and I send him love. I also thank the Universe every day for bringing him back to me. However, I stopped my daily scripting and journalling because of the time it takes? Is that okay? I feel like I should, but I am so consumed with other things that it is hard. What would you suggest?
...P.S. I haven't had time to update my challenge threads. I'm on Day 10, and I am still enjoying it. I often find that the exercises that Veronica has suggested, I have done at some point lol! Nonetheless, I'm keeping up with visualizations. Just haven't had time to read other material and script.
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I think I'm so focussed on doing things the right way that sometimes I find it exhausting. It shouldn't be that way right?
I caved in and stalked him on social media. I really shouldn't have but I don't know why he did. There was nothing juicy but I realized how much I missed him. I hope that feeling didn't undo all the positive changes I have seen. I'm sure he'll come back, but I don't know why all of a sudden I got sad. Is that normal?
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Sam, you are so amazing! Reading stories from you and Cherished and Vera always seem so uplifting. To be honest, I think I'm more stressed out with my job and school that I think naturally my relationship vibes will sink. When I'm not stressed with those things, visualizing doesn't feel like a chore. It just comes naturally.
I think you had mentioned NC before. I have already broken it. About a couple of weeks ago I was in town and I asked to meet for coffee and he pretty much apologized as I predicted using the Pussy Whip technique. When I texted him to let him know my test results came okay, and I don't have cancer, I got an immediate response which was rare. It was exactly as I had pictured him saying using PW.
I am flying home this weekend and I am tempted to text him. Before my vibes went down, I said I'll decide how I feel once I fly home in regards to telling him I'm around. Now, because I have low vibes, I'm not sure what to do. Should I just wait till Thursday when I fly to see how I feel and then decide?
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You were right Sam! Eventually that low vibe passed. I don't know what happened but I just started focussing on my paper and then I felt good again! In fact, the small little things I saw on his social media, which initially made me sad (his friend got engaged), actually now makes me happy. I'm happy for that friend! I hope he takes me as a +1 to their wedding. I believe that these friends will be elated when we get engaged! I've never met these friends of his but I know they're his good friends. I really would like to be their friends too. I believe I will one day.
I did have a dream about our wedding a few nights ago. Is this a sign?
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Sam wrote:
No, it shouldn't be like that at all! Any time you're feeling less than good you are blocking your well being. I've been on this forum a long time and I'm manifesting more wonderful things than ever and all I do is focus on feeling good! Always take the path of least resistance.
It's okay to feel sad sometimes, don't panic when that happens, and don't worry about undoing anything because you're not. Your natural state is feeling good and you will always return to that place if you let yourself. My best advice to you is to stop concerning yourself so much with what you "should" be doing and just focus on doing what feels good to you. 😊
Thank you Sam for that wonderful advice!!! So very true and sometimes I forget that. Focus on feeling good!!