One more suggestion - how to keep balance between letting go,detachment and acting "as if"???

For example, letting go or detachment means you shud concentrate on yourself!
On the other hand, acting as if means you already have him, and feel that way,and concentrating and feeling good for having him back in life. And also,when you are visualizing ,or watching your lovely videos,your mind someway or the other knows you are watching "how to get your ex" back...(that means you don't have him/her)

Anabe91 wrote:

How to "reprogram" your subconscious mind to achieve the state of truly believing it deep down,the  sense of knowing.. And how to eliminate limiting beliefs!

I really like this idea!