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Confused!
I've broken up with my girlfriend (I got dumped) due to trust issues. I didnt cheat but she just felt insecure being with me. This is the 2nd time we broken up and the first time she came back after much use of LOA. It's been 3 weeks and I'm still trying to get her back. Despite of everything.
This time however she seems pretty adamant on the breakup. She went to date another guy, delete me and blocked me off all forms of communications. I went to look for her at her place and she just keeps telling me she is done with us and wants to move on.
However as of late she told my cousin's wife she has broken up with the new guy. And immediately after delivering the news to my cousin's wife she texted me on fb (i did manifest this) but the conversation was cut short. She went MIA. The next day she posted a photo of her and the guy (throwback photo of them last week). I am seriously very confused on why she did this. The next day she called me to ask me about a shop opening hours that we used to go. Then at night she just suddenly left the group chat we use to share with my cousins. Is like Everytime I bring my vibe up, she will react by doing something to bring it down again. Is that a coincidence or what is going on?
I want her back but I duno if it's a lost cause this time round. Is there a chance that LOA will never work again or what should I be doing now? Pls help!
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Re: Confused!
It's you my friend 😊 But that's great to know, right?! In my opinion, it's a pattern where you manage to manifest, and you IMMEDIATELY switch back to creating by default.. Asking yourself "when will she call/is she with someone else/what's with her update" etc. You introduce resistance as soon as she appears back in your reality, instead of holding strong to your endgame. The stuff that happens in between IS her moving back towards you. But you have to watch it all through your LOA filter, and not suddenly drop back to fear. Nothing is a lost cause, unless you deem it to be so.
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Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
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Thanks Cherished. I know you are a very popular figure in this community. Can u tell me step by step what should i be doing to get her back? And also should i go into no contact until she contacts me? Lastly what should i be feeling/doing when she is back into my reality?
Is there anyway can I influence her to give this relationship a shot again? I am willing to change for the better, but she needs to believe that I can!
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Thread Starter- Cherished
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Re: Confused!
Absolutely go no contact. None. Nada. Zip.
Focus on YOU. With meditation, affirmatuons etc.
The name of the game is self love. And that comes with practice, with raising your vibe and knowing your worth. To aid you in this, learn who you are and what you are doing here on earth. Seriously, if you haven't read Ask and it is Given, do that.
Do visualisation, RS, scripting etc as you feel inspired to. Exercise, sleep well and practice manifesting small stuff (check out Come Manifesting in the challenge threads)
Read. LOA, Neville, Veronica's books, and watch her videos. Every day you must be reading or thinking something in order to solidify your confidence in LOA.
Let her contact you. Prove to yourself that you are a magnificent creator! When she comes back, don't lose it and go rogue lol. Stay calm and happy and know that things take time to manifest in the perfect way. Allow her to come to you. And allow her to naturally feel more towards you every day.
None of this will help you if you don't believe. So most importantly, you must convince yourself that this does in fact work. When you get to that stage, there she'll be 😊
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Elm88
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Thank you so much Cherished! She contacted me telling me that she she is sad but refuses to reply after I asked her why. Is there a way I can manifest a more positive response?
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By knowing and trusting and practicing the art of consistent alignment. That's all you need to do!
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Elm88
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Sorry but my english is not very good. What does the art of consistent alignment mean exactly? Like is there a specific thing or feeling that I should be doing or feeling?
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Thread Starter- Angellynn
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Elm88 wrote:
Sorry but my english is not very good. What does the art of consistent alignment mean exactly? Like is there a specific thing or feeling that I should be doing or feeling?
It means being a vibrational match to your desire by feeling good and being in perfect harmony to what you want and this is done by feeling good and not worrying and trusting that everything will be okay. So the opposite of not being in consistent alignment is feeling lack doubt and not trusting 
hope this helps
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I also think you need to ignore every little thing she does and stop overanalyzing it. I have found that ignoring the current circumstances and only focusing on what you want is the only way to stay in alignment with it. If you are constantly reacting to what she does or doesn't do, you pull yourself farther away from what you want. Just keep on believing that she will come back. I believe it by the way she is acting. Don't stress, you two will be together!!! <3
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I think a problem i face is that i fear if i let go or i dont visualize consistently or daily, the Universe will think that I do not want her anymore. I think this created alot of resistance and need. Also her responses are mixed and although i did manifest the contact happening, it is not how I imagined it to be (her telling me she want us back etc).
How do we overcome the "need" of doing visualizations etc daily out of fear that if we dont do it, the thing wont come?
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