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- Genius
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Things I realized
I remember when I first came on here, I was horrible. But the day I found this site, is the day I feel everything started turning around into a positive way. I remember even when my love and I made contact, I would be so desperate in wanting her to reply, and I would want her to reply fast and have longer convos. If I made contact. I would be so upset if she didn't reply
This might sound dumb. But one of the best things to ever happen to me. Was her finding a new boyfriend in the beginning of December, because right then and there. I told myself I had to get better. Now. She makes contact a good amount. Replies etc. if she doesn't reply for a few days. I don't even notice anymore. I've been focusing on myself more. And if I do make contact i do it with no expectations
Honestly. It takes some time getting into the mindset. I feel we here are ahead of the pack though, since most of us. Do become happy again next time. Like there are people on other forums who don't know LOA. Who have gone years without their love. And they are worst than the first week of their breakups. Im glad that's not us
Most important point is. I think you have to get to the point of not caring about either side of the outcome. Like I want my love back. But if someone asked me "how would you feel if you never got her back"? Honestly. I would still be happy either way, I know I'm amazing and will attract other amazing people
- Cherished
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Re: Things I realized
This is so beautiful. You've got it, Dan. When you truly reach that unconditional place, and can appreciate the journey- THAT is when it all comes together. Very proud of your progress 😘
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Oasiscalm
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Re: Things I realized
Cherished wrote:
This is so beautiful. You've got it, Dan. When you truly reach that unconditional place, and can appreciate the journey- THAT is when it all comes together. Very proud of your progress 😘
I second all of what Cherised said.
You gain your rewards in the journey, and there no better reward than when you take a minute and reflect back on how far you have come.
Time and faith really can move mountains.
- Berryluv
- Genius
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Re: Things I realized
That's just great Dan, you are doing so well. I am so appreciative for a platform such as this where we can all share, communicate and extend positive vibrations.
Unlike many forums I have been to this is my favorite. You guys all feel like family. I am genuinely concerned, happy and supportive of you all. Which I think you all are the same for everyone here..and thats what makes the difference here. And people here have had such a high success rate. Success in all forms..
I am not saying this forum is better than any other, or we have some form of secret that any other forum doesn't have. But the collective intensions here have made it a great success, so let's keep it up, and with people like you Dan, I am sure the energy here will go on and on, even if you don't post here anymore.
Which leads me to the idea, of setting an intension that even if we leave here for a while or so, this place will be better and better than how it was when we left it.
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