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Hey!
I don't know if I posted under right chapter.
I feel stuck! It makes me frustrated even if I don't want to feel frustrated. We broke up during the summer and I have attracted from no contact to texts every day but that's it. Never more. Today it hit me how long it has been like that I start to feel scared that I loose him or that all hope is gone or he has someone else or he doesn't love me.
I got sad, and feel like should I just let it all go. I have worked so hard, on myself and the situation. I have read and listened and read again and talkes to Veronica and so on.
Sorry guys, I am just so confused right now.
Hugs!
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"I have attracted from no contact to texts every day"
Why aren't you jumping up and down for joy? This just goes to show how powerful your manifesting abilities really are! Even if it's been a while with no change, AT LEAST YOU'RE STILL IN CONTACT. There are so many of us on here who don't have that.
You say you've worked very hard, but perhaps you've put TOO much effort into all of this. Sometimes trying too hard creates resistance and maybe that's what is tripping you up.
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That is very possible, it's so hard to not work hard on something you care about.
We always text silly stuff, never talk serious and I did the mistake of being impatient and asked him something more private about us and he immediately shut down. Now it feels like he's never gonna talk again.
And I am veryvery happy about us having contacagain, I just can't see any progress from this.
I just miss him and I want to hug him.
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He only shut down because you became fearful. The minute you turn back towards fear, your vibration drops and you aren't on the wavelength of your wonderful relationship. That's all, it's no biggie! It's time to focus on YOU and being in alignment with yourself. Then he will follow π
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Thank you for your answers! It really helps me breathe again.
Why is it so hard to just relax and know that all pieces of the puzzle will find their place perfectly.
I got discuraged because my friends (don't know about LOA) says that he doesn't deserve me an treates me unfairly and stuff like that. That he will never change.
I avoid talking about him with other people, but I did today and it resulted in me crying crocodiletears. Super not in alignment.