If you've been taking into account all the pieces of advice given to you by the members here, you know that the "i don't care" feeling is NOT bad at all. In fact it is the opposite. 

Instead of trying to analyze everything moment by moment, focus on your end goal. Who cares what will happen in between? Who cares if he responds, texts you back, likes your FB status, asks you out, etc. What matters is the end result -- your desired outcome... the end goal. 

You're wasting your energy by focusing on every single thing that he does or whatever happens between the two of you on a daily basis.

Let go of this situation completely if you want to have him back. Let go of analyzing whatever his reactions are, whatever he's doing, and how he's treating you. These things don't matter at all. 

 

He has been online and I am trying not to let no text get to me. Turns out I had some expectations. 

So go offline, get outdoors or go for a jog or do some yoga or make a lovely cup of tea or go ash your hair and paint your nails, or read a book?!?!

confused1077 wrote:

now I am regretting it..Trying not to feel that this is a bad thing...that he didn't respond.. all i said was a response to his snap chat (that he posted for everyone) that "pet babs for me because her fur is so fluffy"

 
Hey confused I'm glad you are over here being supported my this inspiring community.

I'm sorry you are struggling to keep the momentum going. But you really need to believe in yourself and the strength you have within you to make the change and achieve what you want.

The change starts with you, have faith and courage 


Please, please listen to the advice you get given by these great supporters. And the past advice and guidance. You can be given the answers a million times, but they only take effect when you put them into practice.

"..But be ye doers of the word and not hearers only, deceiving yourself. For if you are a hearer only and not a doer, you are like a man who observes his natural face in the mirror and then goes his way, forgetting what he is like. But if you are a doer of the word and not just a forgetful hearer, you will look into the perfect law of liberty, and persevere. That man shall be blessed in all his doings.” Neville Goddard.

confused1077 wrote:

Its not like I am not doing any I am practicing things but it can be difficult.I know I have been making changes.. doesnt mean there arent things that are difficult.  Still need support through those difficult times.

 
I know, we have all been there and still sometimes end up back there.

I said I'm glad you have these guys here supporting you.

And I'm saying have faith in your strength.

And keep pushing through.