Again, I'm actually in no way offended 😀
My add on was because I wanted to add on, it wasn't actually a response to anyone personally.  I just write what I'm inspired to write 🌌

Last edited by Cherished (3/01/2016 1:22 am)

I've actually used this concept to help mold each and every relationship that I have in my life. And it is so important to understand that you are not actually changing THE person. As I said in my original post-you are changing YOUR PERCEPTION and your vibration about the person.  And this will yield to you a very different experience with them. 

This again,  comes full circle back to self love.  By changing you, and your vibration, your reality WILL change. Others will reflect this change. If you are practiced at sending only peace,  love,  forgiveness and camaraderie, you will absolutely elicit the same back from those people you focus upon.

I am an Aber as you all know, and what resonated with me spectacularly was when I heard them say that EVERYTHING in your life comes to you as a  result of your vibration. It immediately switched me from feeling like a victim to feeling empowered.  And I looked around me and thought WOW.. I created that situation.. And WOW, my vibration bought me THAT drama from that person. Which means my vibration, if I change it, can bring me wonderful circumstances and interactions instead.

I went about looking deeply at all of my friendships and relationships. And I noticed that we judge and label people so very much. I had preconceived ideas that basically dictated how I felt about people. And none of it was either  true or useful. I realised how my limited misconceptions were bringing me circumstances I didn't enjoy at all.. and that were unnecessary!

The moment I decided to focus only on the strengths and the beauty in everyone, THAT is when my life changed dramatically. The fact is that everyone is an eternal being of love and light. And your experience with them is always co-created. You both vibrate and either match or not. If you match, you come together and play. If you no longer match, they will vibrate out of your life. But you have the ability to bring to yourself the most incredible relationships. By focussing as purely as I could on the divine nature of people, it dramatically changed ALL of my relationships- with family, friends, colleagues. I gave them each a new and wonderful story. Abe say that if someone has 99 traits that are awful and one that is great and you focus purely on that one awesome trait, the person will continue to show you THAT in your experience. And I found this to be absolutely true.

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