Not sure where to put this, but do you guys think everything no matter what it is.  Happens for a reason?    Like today.  I got out the shower.  And I heard two family members talking about me behind my back, I don't remember exactly what they were saying.  since I didn't hear it that clearly, but I know they were talking about me.  And it didn't sound too positive.     But did this happen for a reason?    Is this basically telling me, I should try to improve some relationships with family members,?