I've been working with Veronica for about a year now.  I reached out to her because I wanted my ex back at that point in time and was in a really bad place emotionally. 

I haven't gotten him back... yet.  I decided a few months ago to take a break from trying as I wasn't seeing any real results.  I got quite a few signs that things were coming, but it never did. I admit that I got discouraged. I got frustrated. So, I quit. 

We have the basic love story... girl meets boy. They flirt for months. Finally girl slips boy her phone number... the rest is history.  They're together. 

Then boy gets scared of something. Boy pulls away and then walks away.  Girl is devestated.  However, she is sure that they will find their way back to one another. Magically, they do.

Again, everything is great for a while. Both boy and girl start to pull away. Boy seems to not want to take the next step forward.  Girl, stressed because of work and boy stalling, takes her frustration out on boy. They talk, agree to work on their issues... then one day, girl says something out of frustration and boy walks away. 

Girl is devestated.  As soon as she said the words, she knew they weren't what she wanted to say. She begs and pleads for forgiveness. Boy won't hear of it.  He leaves,  but before he does, he tells her that he still loves her. 

Boy and girl stop speaking for a period of time...and then resume communication.  It becomes more frequent and friendly, and then flirting... and then more than flirting.  Girl is feeling positive about the outcome because she has been here before,  but then there is a small problem.  Girl notices a new chick in the situation. Flirting on Facebook ensues. Girl calls Boy out on situation, and he replies it's flirting. 

Soon, Boy & Chick begin to date, yet Boy & Girl still have conversations that are more than flirting... up until the day before Boy & Chick become public. Girl does her best to pretend that Chick doesn't exist, but it's hard when all three work for the same company and Chick makes it a point to stalk girl. 

Boy and Girl still talk... conversations initiated by Boy.  Boy asks Girl to continue to spend time with his Little One, who girl adores, so she does.  When the 3 are together, its very similar to old times.  The only difference is now Little One tells girl how much she is going to miss her.  It breaks Girl's heart to hear this because she is sure that if Boy would just listen to his heart, they could have their family back. 

This continues on for several months and then Boy stops contact. Girl does her best to move on. Date others, continue on with her life.  All the while, something pulls at her to believe.  She asks for specific signs and gets them from the universe. 

A few months goes by and Boy suddenly reappears. Boy is suddenly attentive and chatting with Girl everyday. She believes that Chick is still in the picture, but she doesn't ask. (As a matter of fact, Boy and Girl NEVER discuss their dating lives with one another) Boy asks Girl to see the Little One and she does. Again, it's heart breaking, but she does it.  She can't understand how Boy doesn't see what she sees.  How is HE not affected when Little One clings to Girl, tells her she can't leave, how much she loves her and will miss her?  Boy is still attentive for a while longer... until Chick loses her Grandmother. Boy disappears again.

Another few months goes by, again, Girl does her best to move forward.  Boy appears again around Girl's Birthday.  They talk and he's attentive and chatty again.  The Chick loses her Father.  Boy steps back again.

Currently, Boy & Girl are in the stepped back phase.  Girl is trying to decide what she wants to do because it's been close to a year. 

Here is what Girl knows:

She and Boy don't feel done. He still looks for her when he's at work and he thinks she may be there.  

Boy hugs her so close that she feels like it should end in a kiss.  People who don't know much about the situation ask Girl if she and Boy are together and are shocked when she says no. 

Although, she hasn't seen her in months, Girl knows that Little One still loves and misses her. 

Girl still loves Boy and despite everything that has happened, Girl is still willing to try again.

So, what say you?  Should this girl give it another shot?  What should I try this time around?