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I'm reading Cherished's thread here:Β
About how we give people the script and they just act accordingly.
But I've been chatting with one of my guy's exes (we knew each other online since way before my guy and I even met) and she told me that my guy has a pattern. when it comes to relationships And I see that pattern. She even showed me messages of theirs from 5 years ago and they're basically the same things he says/feels/thinks until now.
How does one go about handling this?
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But you are just creating a reality where you are confirming his patterns. And now you manifested someone nodding in agreeance. It doesn't mean that you can't change your expectations and therefore his patterns.
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GOT IT, that makes so much sense.
But omg, he recycles the same lines?? The things he told his ex from 5 years ago are the same things he told me during our 2 years together LOL.