Cherished wrote:

So the reason you have an issue with guys where they approach you and then leave.. Is because you tell this story about guys approaching you and then leaving you. And LOA obligingly delivers that into your reality! Good news, you can rewrite that script! Spend some time convincing yourself that this is just a misconception you have going, and that it will cease to occur the moment you stop telling that story!

Let's reframe it- I know I'm a wonderful person. I have discovered that I create my own reality. And in learning this, I can see clearly where old beliefs have held me back from reaching my potential. I know logically that I am deserving of an incredible relationship with a fantastic guy. A relationship that just goes from strength to strength. I'm going to spend some time learning to love myself, raising my vibration, and proving that I can and WILL have a beautiful romance with the guy of my choice!

How do I do this exactly? Affitmations? Taking care of myself physically, mentally and emotionally? How? I feel like sometimes I get on track for a bit and then fall right back off? The old story has been around for a long time since teens/twenties. I am now in my 30s.

LoveYourself wrote:

Wow meme, this is so much like me Thanks for the tips Cherished, I'll print it out and stick it up on my bedroom wall I'll be covering my wall with affirmations now instead of wall paper lol

 
You know what? I bought a pen marker that you can easily rub out, and I write affirmations on my biggest mirror (in fact mine is a sliding closet mirror!)😜 Do it, it's so much fun, and it makes me smile all day when I think about it. Write something different each day before you leave the house.. "LoveYourself, you are ADORABLE!" Scrawl it across your mirror with hearts and flowers! And then rub it off at night so you can do another one tomorrow! 😘  I'm such a child lol!