1 - confused1077
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My guys birthday is in 3 days , I am doing no contact so far he has not reached out ( you never know what today brings that could change)should j text him happy birthday on his birthday?
- Ivy
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If you want to wish him you can but it shouldn't affect you whether he reply back or not. I wished my guy on his birthday months ago and he didn't reply me back which brought me down at that time. So I suggest it should be unconditional. If you want to wish ...Wish him with all your Love and forget it. Anything can happen so keep your vibes up. 
💕Wherever you go, go with all your HEART.💕
- JetPet
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If it feels right on the day, do it. Please try not to think about it until then, and if you do choose to contact keep it casual, upbeat & brief.
A few years ago I was doing no contact in Dec but broke it to send a Christmas message because it felt wrong not to. BUT I was in a space where I was totally fine when he didn't respond. (FYI by 2nd Jan we were back together 😊)
- Angellynn
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Yes you can but do it simply just to say happy birthday and don't expect anything
"The past, the present, and the future are really one: They are today" Harriet Beecher Stowe"
- ellen
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I say do it; I did so back in December as my love's birthday is right after Christmas so it was a combo message; I am glad he acknowledged it, but was okay if he didn't. I started no contact again from that point, did not break it again until last weekend with a general, non-dramatic text, also received well- but again, back in no contact mode.
- confused1077
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Thanks guys! Oh funny thing so I was on Facebook and looking at an actress page I Ike ( Sarah hyland modern family love her new short bob) when I was looking at the pictures there was a picture of her dog and it said babushka Barkley . Funny thing is my guy has a nickname in our mutuy friends they call him babushka lol I( story behind it) i think that is a sign I am on the right track cause it reminded me of him. I didn't expect that at all.
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Thread Starter- confused1077
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JetPet wrote:
If it feels right on the day, do it. Please try not to think about it until then, and if you do choose to contact keep it casual, upbeat & brief.
A few years ago I was doing no contact in Dec but broke it to send a Christmas message because it felt wrong not to. BUT I was in a space where I was totally fine when he didn't respond. (FYI by 2nd Jan we were back together 😊)
That is awesome congrats 😃
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Thread Starter- confused1077
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Omg I just manifested free Starbucks!!! Makes sense because I have been on really good vibes lately!!!! He is on his way too! So is my $1000!!!in shock right now!
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Thread Starter- LoveIsGod
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Confused1077 , I would suggest not to wish him! Let it be! Let him think!
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Free mimosa!
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