Also what do you do about family and friends on each side of the relationship? It was a pretty bad breakup with both parties not really liking the other. Can the LOA work to patch that up too?

Sorry for all the questions I am just really looking to get some guidance here.

Sam wrote:

For example: A week ago there was a guy at school who hated me and started spreading rumors about me, and even though it bothered me, I nurtured my vibration, felt better, and then in class a few days ago he was a total angel!

Love it. I did wonder what happened in the end

Sam wrote:

Aphrodite wrote:

Second, I came to a conclusion that I was someone's "specific person" when I did not desire him first but my energy shifted about him and we had a wonderful relationship. My sister was also desired by her now b/f since high school. She did not desire him until a couple yrs ago. Never at any moment did either of us feel that our free will was violated. We both decided to go for it and the results were marvelous.

This is a good example!

For me, when my guy and I first started talking, I was actually interested in someone else, and I only intended for him to be a friend. But clearly things changed. 😋

Sadly this is how my love met this other guy. She claimed "she wasnt looking for him and was just a friend"...
 

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Iamthatiam wrote:

Sam wrote:

Anyone who claims you can't get an ex back by using the LOA must be really full of themselves to think their opinion overrides a universal law. The truth is, the law never stops working and we're constantly influencing the people around us, and being influenced by them. You attracted this person the first time around and that wasn't considered against their free will, was it? The only difference here is that you're attracting them deliberately. In my opinion, most people who say you can't attract an ex only say it because it violates their moral code. But the law never stops so you can never stop attracting, which means those people are influencing others as well, so they clearly don't fully understand the law and how it works.

Well said

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i have a little story it was part of what I manifested last year. So last year around this time my guy met up with me and told me about how awesome his new girlfriend was and stuff. Btw he got me a Christmas gift too after telling me how awesome she was whats up with that! So naturally I was completely heartbroken. So I turned to LOA. I thought about me and him as end game. I also wanted people to see a new and improved me. So i started meeting up with mutual friends and non mutual friends and focusing on being a good friend to them. I also visualized him and i together holding hands and anytime i thought of him and her i would move it out of my mind. 4 weeks later I decide to meet up with him as a friend I wanted no awkwardness and I was going to make the best of it. He agreed to meet up of course not receptive but i took it. A day later he texts me out of the blue and starts telling me how sorry he was for how he treated me and how this girl broke up with him. I like to think LOA had a hand in this. We then started talking and I was really seen as awesome by mutual friends who told him(without me saying anything) that I was such a better person and have grown alot. I lost track of doing all this stuff and so because i started worrying and just focusing on him i became friends with benefits and stuff. Friends also think i have regressed because of this. I think they think I have because I feel like I have I didnt keep on LOA and just know that I had this in the bag, I didnt keep thinking how awesome I am and stuff like I was doing. This is all on me but i know if i was able to manifest this before i can again.  But point I did not let the relationship become a obstacle. I love remembering this because this is proof to me that i had done it. Sorry long paragraph hope it makes sense.lol