Listen to yourself. He already said he loves you and that he cares for you. What have you got to worry about? It's only your doubts holding him apart from you.

I've experienced being treated as a low priority and then being treated the exact opposite within the space of a few days. You need to focus more on yourself and feel more positively, you'll be shocked how people make 180 degree turns!

Just chill out a bit. You're working yourself into a miserable black hole.

People have given you so much amazing advice here and on Lanie's board, try to take some time to re-read it all because at this point I don't think you'll be reading anything new – you know how LOA works, and being in this kind of vibration – one of lack, of neediness – will only bring that to you. Go and forget about him for a few days and you'll see and feel the difference.

You're going around in circles, and it's not good for your mental health or your long-term happiness.

You're feeling lack, and need, and when you put out those vibrations both the universe and this guy can sense them, whether he realises it consciously or not. You're putting out WANT and getting WANT back.

Once you're at a point where that neediness is gone, however you decide to achieve it, things will happen. Cherished has posted a lot of amazing threads on here about self-love, maybe you should start re-reading them again, because that's one guaranteed way of success.

The universe always knows, since you are the universe and the universe is in you. However it's up to you to bring yourself up to speed with what you want. You need to be it before you can have it/