I have had the same things happen to me three times tje guys that broke up with me suddenly had a change of heart after ai had moved on. Abraham Hicks offers the best explanation that we are no longer offering resistance. After the end of the relationship we may have asked for that relationship but it is only after we have moved on that the resistance is no longer there and therefore out pops what we wanted from the vortex.

Cheer wrote:

Thanks so much for replies : )  No resistance is the key then.
I would love to drop that history. it's just trusting that he can be different. He did show a nice side sometimes.

Everyone holds the full vibrational spectrum within them. You will experience what you expect from the other person. If you have doubts then you may do well to do some meditation work on letting go of the past, so that you may focus on his good qualities and experience them more.