Oasiscalm wrote:

With living in the end - I mean just not thinking about your current position and thinking about how it's going to happen. Just know that it will, so go about your day just being at peace that's it's will happen and think from that position. It's like you've booked and paid for a holiday in two months time. You now know you will be going on holiday so daydream about being on the beach and relaxing etc not worrying because you know the holiday is coming.

With my intention letter I wrote out everything I wanted in the relationship, I thought about all the things I didn't like in the way our relationship had been and used that as a guide. So I said I like how we communicate openly and lovingly, we make time for each other, we are committed to each other etc and

Thank you so much for giving me more details ... What do you do during the day to keep your mind of your intentions

Thank you so much for your posts!  You really made me soar with hope.  Sometimes I feel like I do not visualize right, and I struggle with putting enough feeling in it.  I downloaded Photostory 3 and made up my own mind movie that I have been watching, but I still struggle.

I also know that I need to stop trying to contact him and forcing it.

The universe will take care of it for me.  

Thanks again!

Oasiscalm wrote:

Love5278 wrote:

Thank you so much for giving me more details ... What do you do during the day to keep your mind of your intentions

 
For me the day is easy because my job is very busy so as soon as I start work I hardly think about it.  But I really got into audiobooks and YouTube videos on LoA and just general personal development. Also going to the gym and reconnecting with friends by going out more. For me I love music and I had to huge effort to remove all the mellow depressing music and replace it with upbeat music.

A funny thing about when u r busy, u really don't think about it. At one point when I was losing faith I asked the universe for a sign of a butterfly to tell me that I would reconnect with him. I went about my days looking out for this butterfly and none appeared. Then finally I got my sign late at night. Anyway a week later I was a work and because I'm in a peads department we have images everywhere. I looked up and realised that there was a whole wall painted with butterflies but because I had been so busy at work i hadn't even registered that my requested sign had been right in front of me the whole time.

Wow that is truly amazing ! One of my intentions are getting my friends back so I've been spending a lot of time by myself these past years .. I like your idea of using loa YouTube videos to get the doubt out of you I'm trying to rid myself of doubt and getting myself to truly believe forever

I really love this post! I started to have some negative thoughts creep up but this made me feel a lot better thank you!

Love everything you all said! My situation is weird but I know he'll come back I worked a lot on myself and I don't know what happened we were okay and now I haven't spoken to him in over a week but like you guys said stop looking at the time ... He will arrive