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I've noticed today that there has been quite a few negative posts. I don't know if it's because today is Valentines Day, or maybe the winter months are bringing about these negative feelings. Either way, it's not helping our vibes! We're a community of one: we all have one goal and that is to live the life we envision. Whether it's getting our past lovers (ex-significant others, previous partners, etc), getting that dream job, etc, we're all one the same page of helping one another raise our vibrations to allow the universe to deliver our desires.
Some of you may know my situation. I'm trying to attract back a guy I previously dated for a short period 2 yrs ago. Trying to make this post short, I'm going to skip a lot of stuff. Anyway, recently (read: this past week) I noticed I hadn't been seeing as many signs as I normally do. I keep seeing his surname everywhere, and recently his first name too. But I also tried to use LOA to attract a new job.
I found out on Friday that I didn't get the job. Didn't even get an interview. I qualified for this job 1,000%. I was bummed. Sad, upset, felt like I'd be trapped at my current job forever. Thoughts of my guy crept in. Why would he want me? He doesn't know I exist anymore. Why am I wasting my time? The fact that I hadn't been seeing any signs (not that I look for them -- I just become aware once I see/hear the name) made me feel like everything has been a waste.
Today the sun was shinning, I have tomorrow off, and I felt like doing my usual 40 minute drive through county roads while listening to music to go and get my favorite coffee from a specific coffee shop. I like doing this, it makes me happy and calm. I relaxed all day. My roommates and their boyfriends went out for V day dinner, in fact they're still not home. My favorite show came back on tonight after a mid season break.
And then there it was. I watched a random news story, and at the end of the story, his surname was mentioned. HOLY MOTHER OF ALL THINGS!!!! I hadn't seen a sign in almost a week, had negative thoughts, and watched my roommates enjoy the day with their loves. But I did things that I wanted to do today, that I enjoyed.
I'm sorry this post is so long, maybe a bit rabbly but the point is: BE GOOD TO YOURSELF. trust in the universe. We all have bad days; we all feel negativity. Keep going. Don't look for signs, let them seek you.
You got them once, go get 'em again. Be so damn happy and amazing and wonderful that you'll knock their socks off when they come around. Don't lose hope, you never know what tomorrow brings (:
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Well said!!
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big_blue wrote:
I've noticed today that there has been quite a few negative posts. I don't know if it's because today is Valentines Day, or maybe the winter months are bringing about these negative feelings. Either way, it's not helping our vibes! We're a community of one: we all have one goal and that is to live the life we envision. Whether it's getting our past lovers (ex-significant others, previous partners, etc), getting that dream job, etc, we're all one the same page of helping one another raise our vibrations to allow the universe to deliver our desires.
Some of you may know my situation. I'm trying to attract back a guy I previously dated for a short period 2 yrs ago. Trying to make this post short, I'm going to skip a lot of stuff. Anyway, recently (read: this past week) I noticed I hadn't been seeing as many signs as I normally do. I keep seeing his surname everywhere, and recently his first name too. But I also tried to use LOA to attract a new job.
I found out on Friday that I didn't get the job. Didn't even get an interview. I qualified for this job 1,000%. I was bummed. Sad, upset, felt like I'd be trapped at my current job forever. Thoughts of my guy crept in. Why would he want me? He doesn't know I exist anymore. Why am I wasting my time? The fact that I hadn't been seeing any signs (not that I look for them -- I just become aware once I see/hear the name) made me feel like everything has been a waste.
Today the sun was shinning, I have tomorrow off, and I felt like doing my usual 40 minute drive through county roads while listening to music to go and get my favorite coffee from a specific coffee shop. I like doing this, it makes me happy and calm. I relaxed all day. My roommates and their boyfriends went out for V day dinner, in fact they're still not home. My favorite show came back on tonight after a mid season break.
And then there it was. I watched a random news story, and at the end of the story, his surname was mentioned. HOLY MOTHER OF ALL THINGS!!!! I hadn't seen a sign in almost a week, had negative thoughts, and watched my roommates enjoy the day with their loves. But I did things that I wanted to do today, that I enjoyed.
I'm sorry this post is so long, maybe a bit rabbly but the point is: BE GOOD TO YOURSELF. trust in the universe. We all have bad days; we all feel negativity. Keep going. Don't look for signs, let them seek you.
You got them once, go get 'em again. Be so damn happy and amazing and wonderful that you'll knock their socks off when they come around. Don't lose hope, you never know what tomorrow brings (:
Wow I love this post!!! you are right on point with everything! I am so happy for you that you have received a sign! This reminds me of a time a week ago actually where I was starting to doubt my lover coming back and almost gave up ( Even though I never will) but then as soon as I thought I was about to give up all of a sudden I run into her mom and sister at the grocery store which was packed and finding a parking spot in the parking lot there they were in the car right beside me! And that same day my lover had texted me when I least expected it! So yes! everyday is a new day for many opportunities and miracles to happen.
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👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👼🏿
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I love this!!!
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Angellynn wrote:
And that same day my lover had texted me when I least expected it!
Amazing! I have yet to receive that text, but know I will soon (:
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big_blue wrote:
Angellynn wrote:
And that same day my lover had texted me when I least expected it!
Amazing! I have yet to receive that text, but know I will soon (:
Yes, you will!
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Great post. Thank you
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Don't forget to be grateful and THANK THE UNIVERSE! Seriously once I heard his name today my heart began to beat really fast! How happy I was and grateful! I just kept repeating 'thank you' while smiling ear to ear.
I saw the sign, I'm grateful, and now I'll continue living in the moment. No dwelling, no wondering. Just living this amazing thing called life.
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lar019 wrote:
.. you universe for the sign and the option; but I'm going to wait for my guy to come back. If I'm supposed to be inspired to date other people while my true desire manifests, then bring me a guy that inspires me to date!
Thank you for this post...and thank you universe for checking in and making sure I know what I want; and helping me figure out how to proceed!!
I'm so glad this could help. You know, I've dated other guys these past 2 yrs. I figured if my guy moved on, so could I. Let me tell you -- I've dated MANY guys. But not a single one has stuck around. Why? I don't know. I felt pretty crappy after it didn't work out, whether I ended it or vice-a-versa.
But then I thought about it, maybe it wasn't supposed to work out because the universe had other plans. I've only known about LOA since November, but to me at least it makes sense. Maybe all those other guys didn't work out because the universe is setting my guy and I up together. Maybe things didn't work out with those guys was a sign in itself.
There is no such thing as coincidences (: