i dont know.... but i guess you wont know whether you are a vibrational match till you get what you seek..
so answer must be that you will get what you want!!!
 

Read The Kybalion, I think it will help.

There is something called the law of correspondence. In other words, yes, the things you decide to become a match to, will also become a match to you.

Milk&Honey wrote:

"Whom/what you adore, adores you back"

                                                              Abraham Hicks

You have all power to get what you want. The power have no limit. So you can attract anything, just like Abraham  said.
 

lar019 wrote:

I had this exact same thought last night too.  I was feeling really good and then thought "what if my vibration is higher than is?"  Will he come back but soon over time, I will want something more for myself?  

I also realized that when I did meet him, I wasn't particularly at a high point in my life - but now that I'm focusing on me, I want to be vibrating higher than imaginable; and wouldn't he need to be there too in order to keep our relationship strong?  But then I also remember reading somewhere that the highest vibration can influence lowers - so maybe when he's back in my life, my high vibration will raise him up. Really makes you think of all the power we have over our lives, and the people/situations that come into our lives!  I got pretty excited about this.

Been reading about quantum physics, which says that once we come across someone, we are always entangled with them. We are always affecting/influencing them.