CarpeDiem wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

CarpeDiem wrote:

I let my curiosity get the best of me and i checked his socail media (I am blocked but he is public) i did not find anything that would affect me. But He seems completely fine with life and looks unaffected. I am having such a hard time. I do great and feel good one moment but its only him that hinders me. I want him back.

Also how are you so sure I can get my ex back? How are you so sure he'll reach out. I am not trying to attack or doubt you but I don't know what to do. I feel like **** and I hate when I get to this feeling cause I do great a lot of the time then things like this slip. I have manifested so much but just not him.

CarpeDiem, I know it seems hard to believe sometimes but has your same thinking pattern changed your life? I used to do the same thing but then I realized I was stuck in the same situation. I would wonder why isn't he changing, why is he ignoring me, will he ever accept me, when will things change, how will they change etc.

Trust me this drove me crazy and I seriously had a nervous breakdown. Then I decided that I'm going to stop and I refuse to take no as an answer and I'm going to marry him one day. So then I got a hold of Veronica. With her help, I became more positive. And you won't believe that from all the cities in CA, he ended up getting a job in the same city as me. That's definitely not a coincidence. So things are happening but at that right time!

 

Your right. I let my emotions get to me and I texted him today after being quiet for two months (we broken up for 3 but only two months of it is mc) I know I shouldn't have texted him but who knows he might still respond. I sent him a message that was like asking for photos from a historical site we visited as I needed for a project. So who knows. It's just hard but I know I can change my thoughts as I have for so many things. I have healed other relationships in my life like my mom etc. I don't know why I find this one challenging. I know I messed up texting him but oh well. I have to accept it and try to continue. Thank you for your message.

CarpeDiem, don't feel bad about texting him. It's done with and you can't change the past. That's good you fixed your other relationships. I tbink the reason why you think this won't work is because you are too attached to the idea of losing him.

Tell yourself that it's a fact that you and him are together. Do you ever question the fact who your parents are? You see it as fact and accept without a doubt that those are your parents. You don't go check hospital records to make sure that they are your parents. It's a simple fact that you have accepted and truly believe. So just like that accept that your guy is yours and it's a fact and the truth that cannot be changed!

Cherished wrote:

Think that he has received your message and is REALLY happy to hear from you! You create your experiences, so put it out there that he has read your message and is over the moon that you reached out! Just try it, you have nothing to lose and EVERYTHING to gain.. Veronica said that to me and it is so true!

you were right. prior to reading your message i sent another text which basically said. to just tell me you're not gonna send the photos. its immature and chidlish you're still doing the ignore thing after months of not talking. I am asking for your help for a university project im trying to complete.

and hour later he responded and wrote that he was charging his old phone that had the photos and would send them later to night. he told me to relax.

I was surprised. as soon as i read your post and imagined a response i got it. Now that he got my text and will look at the photos I hope that seeing these photos of us will sortve let him have a stroll down memory lane of the happy times in our relationship

Last edited by CarpeDiem (7/01/2015 10:20 pm)