1 - TheGiver
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Cheating
I've been wondering this for a long time: why does a partner cheat if their partner isn't (on the surface) giving off a vibration that would cause that?
My dad cheated on my mom, but I know she had a lot of fears and insecurities that caused it.
But lately there have been two examples of this in my life that I can't quite wrap my head around.
The first is this couple I know. The wife is 40, husband 34. Husband is the nicest guy, wife is kind of wild. Recently the wife cheated on him, took all his money, etc. I don't understand how husband could've brought this into his reality. He's really relaxed, down-to-earth, etc. I can't see him having fears like this come to him and control his vibration. I know the wife's vibration warranted this. But if we're talking about the guy and looking at this vibrationally through his eyes, I just don't see how he could've created this scenario.
Second example is my buddy, 24, who last year the girl he was seeing for four years cheated on him while she was working down in Disney world. He said he was pretty confident she was the one, never had any doubts or fears, etc. The only thing I can think is that perhaps he put out some desire into the universe that it's not fulfilling, but it required his girlfriend not being in the picture for (maybe that's the answer for example one, too).
I just don't understand sometimes why certain things happen to people when it doesn't appear (at least on the surface) that they're emitting a vibration that would warrant this.
I found this article that touches upon this situation:
It says that there is some desire or negative belief or component of ourself/our vibration that attracts the situation NO MATTER WHAT. But I'm still having a tough time wrapping my head around that, though it certainly makes sense. It's just hard to grasp since I obviously can't read my friends' vibrations all the time.
What is everyone else's thoughts on this (Cherished, I KNOW you got something to say about this 
)?
- Cherished
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Re: Cheating
Well, you're a manifesting God then, aren't you? I DO have something to say. It's always there. In your subconscious. And it might not be a "cheating" vibe. But there is something stuck in your subconscious that will attract it to you anyway. Abraham talked once with a guy who said he was absolutely sick and tired of having nasal congestion. And he didn't understand why, because he was never thinking about nasal congestion. But now that he got it every day, he was FURIOUS about it! And they said the most interesting thing. They asked him what else was in his life that made him sick and tired? What else irritated the bajeezus out of him every single day? After a while he said "ohhhhhhhhh. I have this vibe going on.." And he went on to say that every day he would sit furiously in the morning traffic congestion. And every afternoon he would do the same, bitching and moaning all the way home.
What it highlights is the fact that no, he didn't have a nasal congestion vibe going on, he had a "this is seriously irritating!!!!!" vibe going on. Your friend has to have a vibration going on that mimics the feelings he experiences when he is cheated on.
It's all about underlying limiting beliefs.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- TheGiver
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So by focusing on the congestion he got another kind of congestion haha?
This makes perfect sense--my friend from example two, love him to death, is very pessimistic and I can see how something made him emit this vibration.
My friend from example one probably focused a little too much on his wife's negative qualities in recent months. This makes me feel better about, y'know, never being cheated on haha.
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Re: Cheating
Alignment!! Alignment and alignment. That's all you need 🙋👏🏼
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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How about this woman? I'm having trouble grasping how this woman manifested the con man guy and I don't quite get Esther/Abraham's explanation.
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Thread Starter- Cherished
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What I took from that is 2 things. She accurately attracted what she was vibrating at- meaning yes she's wildly successful in some areas but there are still things holding her back. And so she attracted this guy. And what Abe are trying to explain is that there's SUCH good clarity to be gained. She's learning how to better hold her vibration steady, and she's understanding that in some areas she still holds limiting beliefs.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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Hey Cherished, did you ever make a post about what alignment means and the best ways to get into it?
- Cherished
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Colonel Roosevelt wrote:
Hey Cherished, did you ever make a post about what alignment means and the best ways to get into it?
Maybe, I can't remember lol. I'll check.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Cherished
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Re: Cheating
Saw it, thanks!
Not sure that really covers it
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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