If no desire is wrong to have , why do sometimes I feel like it's bad for me to have my desire ? Why does it feel impossible at times ... I fell in love with my bestfriend which is a girl and we were madly in love until my negative thoughts took over .. Why do I feel that my desire is wrong to have since we're both girls and people in my family are against it like my parents why do I feel like it's impossible to get my girl back...why does it feel impossible right now

Last edited by Love5278 (8/10/2015 11:20 pm)

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Last edited by Love5278 (8/11/2015 4:50 pm)

It's because you are looking at it from the wrong end of the stick. You either look at the good end or the bad end. You can only think of one thing at a time-  what you want, or what you don't want. The great thing about your emotions and energy going up and down is that you can FEEL IT. Which means you can immediately stop what you're doing and redirect your thoughts. If you picked up the bad end of the stick, you need to drop it and pick up the good end instead. At first it's tricky, because your mind has been trained to go back to what it repeats most often. But soon, you'll automatically attract better thoughts, after a few days of concentrating on good stuff.. And then the good stuff will actually manifest 😊 In my opinion, this really needs to be a journey of self love and discovery, whereby you find your path, happily skip along it, and voila.. along comes the love of your life to join you in your fun! You'll not attract your love back out of sadness or yearning. Ever. We'll wrestle you into happiness yet, you'll see 😘

Last edited by Cherished (8/11/2015 5:06 pm)

You keep telling that two year story thing.... Just saying..... 😘

You just stop. There's not a special formula, or a secret way to do it. You literally have to watch your thinking, stop anything bad, and redirect it to something better. Have you ever dove a focus wheel? Try one of those. They are great. There's lots of info on them if you just Google. Veronica also recommends them. I do them when I'm in a funk. I also work my way up the emotional scale. Try this. Write out what your currently feeling. Next re-write the paragraphs so that they are SLIGHTLY better. So it's still believable. Then re-write your story again, with the BEST possible outcome instead. And then finally, write down hiw that new story makes you FEEL.. If you really write it out, you should be able to shift your emotions substantially. Then tomorrow, or in a few days, do it again, and you should find yourself thinking from a better vantage point.