NAC1701 wrote:

I am very sorry to read that your friend is being so negative.  I know this from my own experience too.  I have a friend who, every once in a while, will tell me what I am doing is not going to bear fruit.  That he is never coming back to me etc.  Instead, he says, I should give up and move on.  That I should pray for help to "get over" it.  This is all negative and not even helpful to us. Some people just do not understand, even if they are on our side.  So this is why the Bible teaches us to go pray in private in your own room, behind closed doors.  Don't share with people who could distract your in a negative way.  Go to people you trust.  I learned my own way that I am no longer telling friends that I am trying to manifest my ex back.  I have only ONE friend who I trust and discuss things with about LOA.  And we agreed that nothing negative will be said between us on that topic.  Since then, things have been better.  Pick that one good friend who is not going to be negative and make them your best cheerleader, supporter.  Wishing you much success.

 
Thankyou! Thanks for letting me know that I'm not alone in this. You're lucky to have one such friend that could share your journey with! I hope I can have one friend who supports me in this and keeps me on track soon!

Himanshupatil wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Himanshupatil wrote:

you know what!!
when i came here on the forum...almost 1 month from my break up it was like my girl was on the pedestial i had given her.... it was like i was finding my happiness in her!!!
This was wrong!!
As time went and i started to focus more on myself, things started to fall in place...
Currently i have no clue about her and honestly i dont care...i know i just love her and wish the best for her....
i have worked on myself a lot...and when she is will see me...she will be like "Hell !!! This guy is awesome...i just want to be with him!!! There is no one better !!!"
i know This will happen and i m working on myself to be better...
and that makes me happy... also people around me have pointed out how i have changed  and how i have improved myself...their praise felt nice...
so maybe you should try this out...
I m Making myself better financially, mentally, physically and maybe spiritually everyday!!! i can see and feel the changes and it makes me happy..
I m the best version of myself so far...and only getting better..
Try this out and your guy will crave you when the changes are so dominant that everyone around you notices them!!
Get rich!! Get fit... Get sexy!!! Be You!!! Enjoy life!!!

 
I'm so happy for you to see you in such a high place of vibration, I'm sure your love feels it all the time and starting to crave for you!! Do you still do visualization and such during these time?

For starters...i dont know how she feels and 
and yes i do visualization...that is because it makes me feel better and i can get rid of lack feeling..
whenever i feel the lack...i stop and visualize or do affirmation...
My girl even if she calls or texts...it will mean she is craving me badly... that i know...
unless she is absolutely sure she loves me and wants to be with me...she will not even text me a simple wish...
so till than i wont know!!!
but you know what i love about this situation???? i have absolutely nothing to lose...
so i can go with full faith in the process!!!
i like situations when my back is up against the wall....in such situations...i have always bounced back and came out swinging!!!!
 

How about what our lovers became? My guy have changed. He has become someone who don't love me anymore and he became someone who is so cold. What should I do about this?
 

I just can't forget about it and face the reality.