I kind of know how you feel, my love is currently in a relationship with another guy and has been for about 2 months.    My love and I still talk.  And she basically tells me everything, including about the relationship.   From what I can tell. He seems perfect for her and as of right now can offer her things that I can't, because he lives closer to her.     Honestly.  I was so depressed when I first heard about it, but then I realized.  I could use this time to better myself and focus on myself and less on her.     I'm not suggesting you do this, but for me.  Talking to other girls have helped my confidence.    And also took my mind off my love.   I still 100 percent believe we'll get back together one day, but I'm in no rush.   I'm focusing on myself.  So when I do get her back.   I'm the best version of myself

Himanshupatil wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

But if I block him on my Snapchat, how do I know if he still cares about my life or not...? Maybe its that girl that makes me feels so insecure.. I'm going to dlt that post btw as it's so negative. After posting it, I felt relief a little bit...I just wanna know wht should I do to have him back asap... and met that girl disappear from our life... sigh.

I dont know if it is the right thing to do or not...but if i was in your place i would block him on social media and everywhere else... make sure i dont see him even by mistake...
so that takes care of ignoring the reality.... than i would work on what everybody here is doing...that is raising their vibration !!!
Whether He cares or not is for universe to handle...
You first need to handle your emotions, feel good about yourself...love yourself...and work on yourself...and give him love and light unconditionally...
have faith and let go...

Again I m not sure if this is the right way...but i m doing it this way...maybe others on this forum can suggest better ways!!
 

There are no right or wrong way, it is just way. First you MUST STOP looking for him or her. Ignore him and her in this reallity and give him a lot of love in reallity where you two are together. This realitty is past. I know that it can be difficulte but what would you do if you two are going on vacation and he will come after you? You will have your day full of joy and you will prepare everything for him. Here it is same story. Dont worry about him. Forget her, enjoy your life, have fun, start creat your life. Start manifaste other thing. He is just cherry on cake.
 

Sam wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Leli, thankyou. But it's just so hard...I want myself to be back on track but i don't seems to be that strong and have that confident..

I honestly think it would do you some good to put him on the back burner for a while. You are making him the most important thing in your life. You're acting like you need him to be happy but you don't!

Please, take it from me. I decided to let go of trying so hard to manifest my guy and now I'm focusing on myself and I feel 10x better. And when I'm feeling really good I see signs of my guy and it makes me feel even better. I promise you!!

 
Hi Sam, thanks. What do you mean by focusing on ourself? After graduate, I'm a tuition teacher for primary grades, so I got that time to be detach from him. Is this focusing on myself?

you know what!!
when i came here on the forum...almost 1 month from my break up it was like my girl was on the pedestial i had given her.... it was like i was finding my happiness in her!!!
This was wrong!!
As time went and i started to focus more on myself, things started to fall in place...
Currently i have no clue about her and honestly i dont care...i know i just love her and wish the best for her....
i have worked on myself a lot...and when she is will see me...she will be like "Hell !!! This guy is awesome...i just want to be with him!!! There is no one better !!!"
i know This will happen and i m working on myself to be better...
and that makes me happy... also people around me have pointed out how i have changed  and how i have improved myself...their praise felt nice...
so maybe you should try this out...
I m Making myself better financially, mentally, physically and maybe spiritually everyday!!! i can see and feel the changes and it makes me happy..
I m the best version of myself so far...and only getting better..
Try this out and your guy will crave you when the changes are so dominant that everyone around you notices them!!
Get rich!! Get fit... Get sexy!!! Be You!!! Enjoy life!!!

Himanshupatil wrote:

you know what!!
when i came here on the forum...almost 1 month from my break up it was like my girl was on the pedestial i had given her.... it was like i was finding my happiness in her!!!
This was wrong!!
As time went and i started to focus more on myself, things started to fall in place...
Currently i have no clue about her and honestly i dont care...i know i just love her and wish the best for her....
i have worked on myself a lot...and when she is will see me...she will be like "Hell !!! This guy is awesome...i just want to be with him!!! There is no one better !!!"
i know This will happen and i m working on myself to be better...
and that makes me happy... also people around me have pointed out how i have changed  and how i have improved myself...their praise felt nice...
so maybe you should try this out...
I m Making myself better financially, mentally, physically and maybe spiritually everyday!!! i can see and feel the changes and it makes me happy..
I m the best version of myself so far...and only getting better..
Try this out and your guy will crave you when the changes are so dominant that everyone around you notices them!!
Get rich!! Get fit... Get sexy!!! Be You!!! Enjoy life!!!

 
I'm so happy for you to see you in such a high place of vibration, I'm sure your love feels it all the time and starting to crave for you!! Do you still do visualization and such during these time?