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veggiepizzaforever wrote:
31 isn't even old? Hahahaha.
You and your friend are not in a vibrational match right now. Come talk to us instead. <3 I don't talk to my friends about these things because I know the response will not be favorable and who needs that negative energy?!
I know right! Im 27 and hes 31. We are young!!!
Anyway I will take you on that offer. I will just talk about him here, hehe. We both hsve made mistakes with each other. But I hsve nothing bad to say about him he never cheated on me or disrespected me. We would just have energy clashes. But yes the negativity is very disheartening. It makes me feel very bad. But your warmth made me feel better. Thanks for understanding!
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Angellynn wrote:
I've been in the same situations before with my lover, and everyone always had something negative to say about her or us not being together.. I recently told my mom that I'm doing LOA and I desire to have my love return back to me and she was just saying things I did not want to hear, but I didn't give into it I told her I respected her opinion, but I am going after what I want no matter what. So just have a mindset and focus only on what YOU what despite what others say if you have to just block them out. I know how it feels especially when your friends talk bad about your lover, but they are different people and their thoughts and opinions don't really matter most times. In your situation your friends comments don't matter as long as you believe then you will achieve and receive. When she says those things maybe it is because she experienced something with a lover and doesn't have hope, but knowing LOA is the key to everything!!
Thanks for this post!! I do believe she is very "hard" on men and has very unrealistic views on men and relationships. She is such an alpha female (I love her!) that is very strict and if you don't do things her way she cuts off. She kinda reminds me of younger, immature men who dont understand "love" and thinks everything with in relationships is black and white.
Anyway, I just grow quiet when she does this! I feel inner resistance but mostly bc the things she say about my guy are not true of him. She doesn't know him. She just knows bits and pieces of the rough times and has made if her mind he is no good. Whenever she has man issues Ive always not judged and tried to give her hope bc I know Im not in the situation. Im an outsider.
But I do know things will turn in my favor. I believe. Hes come back before and I kmow I can get him to come back again. He is already on the way!
Thanks for your words of encouragement!
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Berryluv wrote:
Cherished wrote:
Almost of my LOA friends are here.. The rest of them are CBD's.... Creators by default π But that's ok, so was I before. I don't allow myself to get sucked into certain conversations. I nod and smile and exclaim "OMG!" in all the right places, but if the topic is something that creates resistance within me I simply wander off, or go find snacks or something!
AND what you will find is that your circle of friends will either be influenced to higher vibrations with you, or you simply won't have as many interactions with them. You attract more like-minded people eventually. We are all here to experience what we desire, and we all have different desires. Whatever doesn't resonate with you, simply don't take it on board. You can be polite and pass it off easily in front of them, and then when you're driving home by yourself you can say "pffffffft, NO WAY BUDDY, THIS IS THE REALITY I'M CREATING!"Cherished is like my virtual twin, from anot her mother, maybe separated by a few years apart.. I don't know.. kidding..
But seriously don't worry about the friends, she is only feeding off what you were vibrating when you were with him, or how you feel about him know. You are the creator of your own reality. You choose what you want in life. I have friends who I love dearly and would do anything for, but when it comes to the topic of dating, love and men, it just seems like we don't discuss it because I am vibrating at a much higher level than her. And I don't look down on her, but I refuse to lower my vibration just to have a conversation. She has to raise hers to share with me, and it will always work that way. That's why this forum is so great, because we have one common goal, no.. not getting our exes back.. raising our vibration. I love you guys here. Ever wonder why the highest vibrating threads have like over 3 pages or so of posts?.. we are attracting higher and higher vibrations. Ever wondered if you were feeling down and posted something low and a refer comments your vibration went up? Or someone posts something and you say "wow that's just want I needed to hear".. that's not coincidence. . That's what youre attracting. And you all wonder how it's soo difficult to manifest a relationship and you're not getting it right.. you are manifesting a higher vibration through this forum right now.. you did it.. it wasn't forced.. it came to you. Now give yourself some credit for being a bad ass creator and go out there and bring us some success stories we can loathe about on the forum.
Hahaha! I know some success stories are on the way! And I will post here! I feel so much more empowered after reading your post! I know I create my life and I will not allow her words to affect me from now on. Im glad I posted my issue here. I was nervous at first but Im glad I did. Loved everyones encouragement! Thanks!!
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Sagit88 wrote:
Angellynn wrote:
I've been in the same situations before with my lover, and everyone always had something negative to say about her or us not being together.. I recently told my mom that I'm doing LOA and I desire to have my love return back to me and she was just saying things I did not want to hear, but I didn't give into it I told her I respected her opinion, but I am going after what I want no matter what. So just have a mindset and focus only on what YOU what despite what others say if you have to just block them out. I know how it feels especially when your friends talk bad about your lover, but they are different people and their thoughts and opinions don't really matter most times. In your situation your friends comments don't matter as long as you believe then you will achieve and receive. When she says those things maybe it is because she experienced something with a lover and doesn't have hope, but knowing LOA is the key to everything!!
Thanks for this post!! I do believe she is very "hard" on men and has very unrealistic views on men and relationships. She is such an alpha female (I love her!) that is very strict and if you don't do things her way she cuts off. She kinda reminds me of younger, immature men who dont understand "love" and thinks everything with in relationships is black and white.
Anyway, I just grow quiet when she does this! I feel inner resistance but mostly bc the things she say about my guy are not true of him. She doesn't know him. She just knows bits and pieces of the rough times and has made if her mind he is no good. Whenever she has man issues Ive always not judged and tried to give her hope bc I know Im not in the situation. Im an outsider.
But I do know things will turn in my favor. I believe. Hes come back before and I kmow I can get him to come back again. He is already on the way!
Thanks for your words of encouragement!
Your'e so welcome! and you will get your lover back in no time! And wow! yeah I had a friend like that before too! She would always say how I would choose the wrong kind of guys and it was very hurtful, but I am just not a vibrational match to her anymore so its good! I had lot's of people disagree with my lover,but I knew her heart like no one ever has, so I always saw the good in her! Well good luck with her! haha but I have been in a similar position before with someone like that
But just keep your head up baby girl!
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Haha.. cheers to you.. you're getting so much encouragement here.. if you had a dollar for all the encouragement here you'd be filthy rich.. you could quit your day job and sell encouragement as a side business.
But really.. we're so happy for you.
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I hope this helps, I actually asked Veronica a question about friends and their comments and questions and you know what's funny.Β Veronica said those comments are created by our thoughts and we created that too.Β Try and zap any thoughts of what your friends think and their opinions because LOA is about you and your desires.Β I tried to implement Veronica's advice and my friends don't even ask or the subject doesn't even come up or I fear not what anyone says.Β I hope that helps.Β I also do agree that it is best to go to people too that are totally supportive of you so you keep in your vibrational match and can manifest your desire of reuniting quickly.Β
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Omerta wrote:
I hope this helps, I actually asked Veronica a question about friends and their comments and questions and you know what's funny.Β Veronica said those comments are created by our thoughts and we created that too.Β Try and zap any thoughts of what your friends think and their opinions because LOA is about you and your desires.Β I tried to implement Veronica's advice and my friends don't even ask or the subject doesn't even come up or I fear not what anyone says.Β I hope that helps.Β I also do agree that it is best to go to people too that are totally supportive of you so you keep in your vibrational match and can manifest your desire of reuniting quickly.Β
Thank you! I see the light now hahah.