Angellynn wrote:

I've been in the same situations before with my lover, and everyone always had something negative to say about her or us not being together.. I recently told my mom that I'm doing LOA and I desire to have my love return back to me and she was just saying things I did not want to hear, but I didn't give into it I told  her I respected her opinion, but I am going after what I want no matter what. So just have a mindset and focus only on what YOU what despite what others say if you have to just block them out. I know how it feels especially when your friends talk bad about your lover, but they are different people and their thoughts and opinions don't really matter most times. In your situation your friends comments don't matter as long as you believe then you will achieve and receive. When she says those things maybe it is because she experienced something with a lover and doesn't have hope, but knowing LOA is the key to everything!!

Thanks for this post!! I do believe she is very "hard" on men and has very unrealistic views on men and relationships. She is such an alpha female (I love her!) that is very strict and if you don't do things her way she cuts off. She kinda reminds me of younger, immature men who dont understand "love" and thinks everything with in relationships is black and white.

Anyway, I just grow quiet when she does this! I feel inner resistance but mostly bc the things she say about my guy are not true of him. She doesn't know him. She just knows bits and pieces of the rough times and has made if her mind he is no good. Whenever she has man issues Ive always not judged and tried to give her hope bc I know Im not in the situation. Im an outsider.

But I do know things will turn in my favor. I believe. Hes come back before and I kmow I can get him to come back again. He is already on the way!

Thanks for your words of encouragement!

Sagit88 wrote:

Angellynn wrote:

I've been in the same situations before with my lover, and everyone always had something negative to say about her or us not being together.. I recently told my mom that I'm doing LOA and I desire to have my love return back to me and she was just saying things I did not want to hear, but I didn't give into it I told her I respected her opinion, but I am going after what I want no matter what. So just have a mindset and focus only on what YOU what despite what others say if you have to just block them out. I know how it feels especially when your friends talk bad about your lover, but they are different people and their thoughts and opinions don't really matter most times. In your situation your friends comments don't matter as long as you believe then you will achieve and receive. When she says those things maybe it is because she experienced something with a lover and doesn't have hope, but knowing LOA is the key to everything!!

Thanks for this post!! I do believe she is very "hard" on men and has very unrealistic views on men and relationships. She is such an alpha female (I love her!) that is very strict and if you don't do things her way she cuts off. She kinda reminds me of younger, immature men who dont understand "love" and thinks everything with in relationships is black and white.

Anyway, I just grow quiet when she does this! I feel inner resistance but mostly bc the things she say about my guy are not true of him. She doesn't know him. She just knows bits and pieces of the rough times and has made if her mind he is no good. Whenever she has man issues Ive always not judged and tried to give her hope bc I know Im not in the situation. Im an outsider.

But I do know things will turn in my favor. I believe. Hes come back before and I kmow I can get him to come back again. He is already on the way!

Thanks for your words of encouragement!

Your'e so welcome! and you will get your lover back in no time! And wow! yeah I had a friend like that before too! She would always say how I would choose the wrong kind of guys and it was very hurtful, but I am just not a vibrational match to her anymore so its good! I had lot's of people disagree with my lover,but I knew her heart like no one ever has, so I always saw the good in her! Well good luck with her! haha but I have been in a similar position before with someone like that But just keep your head up baby girl!

I hope this helps, I actually asked Veronica a question about friends and their comments and questions and you know what's funny.  Veronica said those comments are created by our thoughts and we created that too.  Try and zap any thoughts of what your friends think and their opinions because LOA is about you and your desires.  I tried to implement Veronica's advice and my friends don't even ask or the subject doesn't even come up or I fear not what anyone says.  I hope that helps.  I also do agree that it is best to go to people too that are totally supportive of you so you keep in your vibrational match and can manifest your desire of reuniting quickly.