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So I dont know what is happening. I keep seeing his name everywhere in different forms.
I used to call him Vee (short for his full name)
So for example these are a few forms I have seen his name in the last few days:
- whilst driving, i would randomly notice the letter "V" on car number plates, they would even drive past me, infront of me or be parked up on the side but some how catch my attention
- car number plates spelling out V33
- car number plates spelling VE
- randomly seeing words or other names that have "vee" in it
- randomly coming across his full first name on facebook, but its not him. its someone else! Never met anyone with the same name as him as its an unusual name.
-my mum randomly telling me she saw him walking outside his name (but she then asked me if weve spoken recently, and I said no and she goes so its completely over then? I walked out of the room, as that did upset me)
- I see him randomly tagged in his friends fb check in, who I dont have as a friend on fb but because someone on my fb liked a post on her page, her profile came onto my newsfeed and I clicked on it
- his close friend keeps tagging him in funny pics/vids on facebook, and I have his friend on fb so it shows up on my newsfeed.
Its crazy how many times this has happened in the last few days now. I do get slightly excited now everytime I notice his name. It does feel good. At the start I was getting annoyed when I saw he was socialising with friends but now I try to send out good vibes too.
I also saw his brother a few days ago whilst I was driving past.
I dont understand why I keep seeing his name everywhere. Is this a good thing? If so, what does it mean?
Last edited by Baby_r (8/10/2015 4:41 am)
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It's just synchronicity. You pull things into your field that you are focused on. And the more you acknowledge it as something special to you, LOA will jump in and deliver more of those synchronistic moments. If you like them and they make you feel great, then keep thinking positively and you'll continue to see his name and other stuff. Anything that annoys you- think of something else you want to see lots of instead.
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Ah wow! Thanks for the replies.
Thats sounds so interesting. I think I will get even more excited now when this happens to me.
I wonder if this is happening to him too.
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So I came across this whilst researching and it totally relates to me and Vee.
We were friends whilst we had different partners. We used to work together in retail whilst we were both studying. One day a week job. His shift overlapped mine, so we would see eachother for a few hours once a week. He got along well but knew nothing of each others backgrounds.
He soon left work, and I never used to keep in contact with anyone after they left work, but for
Some reason we kept in contact, considering we were both in a relationship with others, this was purely friendship, nothing else.
I soon broke up with my partner back then, and became even closer to Vee. We would always write on eachothers fb wall, to the point his gf saw me as a threat, but we were both unaware of this until after. We would go out to get food etc as he lived on top of my road. He is 2 years older than me too. But it didnt feel like it. Ww both became kids when we were together. We would always laugh and say that no one would believe he is a 26 year old pharmacist when we were in a relationship and he would agree too because we wouldnt act our age haha!
Anyways whilst I was single for a year, I liked my
High class friend and we were casually seeing eachother. Notjing serious or official. Although I wanted it to be serious but he didnt see it that way. I remember Vee asking me about him over the phone and I told him the situation! Vee then gave me adviced and lectured me about this guy seeing I shouldnt waste my time on seeing him as hes only after one thing from me and if he really liked me he would make it official. I took his advice and stopped seeing this guy.
But soon after Vee broke up with his gf. We became even more close. He started coming over and got inteoduced to my family as a friend. People started seeing us together and thought we were dating and started questioning us, even to the point our mums thought we were together but we wont. We didnt even consider it. We were amazing friends and wanted to keep it that way. We even discussed it and said its not going to happen. I told him hes too tall for me (im like under 5ft) and he said the same how he wouldnt go for a short girl as hes 6ft 1!
As we started spending more time together we realised our family background was so similar. Both of us not talking to our dads but still living in the same house however his parents were going theough a messy divorce. I had never met anyone going through similar things as me.
We then as a joke decided that we will be each others backups for marriage. If none of us didnt find a partner by the time he was 26 and I was 24, we would marry each other! Loll
So we then went on holiday together, me vee and another guy mate and we both fell for eachother during the holiday without realising. It was only when we got back home we started missing eachother so much that we would want to see eachother literally everyday.!
A month later whilst chilling late night with him he randomly told me he liked me. I didnt believe him as we always had banter so I thought hes messing about because of what everyone is saying about us. But he convinced me he was being serious and he also asked me if i felt the same and I said I dont want to say anything yet in case u are joking and he took that as a no but i quickly told him i felt the same.
Few months later i started feeling really down and negative, insecure and jealous over him. Things got worse and eventually nearly 2.5Years into our relationship he ended it. However for nearly a year we were on and off unofficially. Whenever we would chill together he would kiss and we would be intimate. We both felt the connection still. He even told me he still feels a strong connection between us. It would still feel like we are together. He would still look at me the same way and give me a cheeky smile. He literally couldnt get enough of me even after the break up! Even after we broke up he would always ask for my pics etc he always remembered the things i would like and dislike. He would recommend me movies coz he thougjt they were my type. He remembered alot of things about me after which was so sweet.
I know he was scared to make it official coz he was scared of the past repeating itself. He even confirmed it by admitting this to me after when he was so close to asking me out again. I was so hurt by this. Because i knew he was getting triggered but not once did he ask to talk it through with me but decided to end it again in dec 2014!
I believe he is my soul mate and we connected for a reason. I have learnt so much from him but only realised things once the relationship broke up. We both needed to work on ourselves and heal ourselves due to our childhood.
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Also I forgot to mention I attracted him into my life. The guys before him were idiots!
When I was 16/17years old me and my friend were just chilling in my bedroom and we decided we will make a list of what we want our future husbands to be like.
I then ended up in a relationship with Vee when I was 22. He ticked every box of my list except one which was he has to be 5ft 10 max as I am relaly short. But I was happy with that. I was shocked when I realised a few months into the relationship that he ticked all the boxes! This list was long gone as I got rid of the computer but I remember clearly what was on the list.
He was the first decent guy in my life. I attracted him once and can attract him again. I know he still loves me.
I remember once i was picking his brother up from his house and i told vee that i was coming to pick his brother up and then randomly soon after he messaged me asking where am i and why i hadnt left yet. I was on my way and then when i parked up in hos drive away he came out and said hi and then got into his car to go to play basketball. He was waiting for me to come so he could see me for 2 secs, thats why he was questioning me and waited for me.
Again once i was walking past his house and we were msging eachoher so i randomly just mentioned it to him that im walking past without expecting him to come to his bedroom window. But he did, but he didnt lift the curtain to wave or anything as I wasnt looking towards the house either but instead he took a pic of me
Walking past and sent it to me as way of telling me
He saw me! I found that cute! This wasnt the first time he came to the window either when i mentioned i was wlaking past. Once he was in his mums bedroom upstairs and he looked out to see me but again I wasnt looking so he mentioned it by saying something about the side of the road i was wlaking on!
I know he wouldnt do this for any friend! No one would do all this for a friend, only for someone they have feelings for! I know he still has feelings for me.