Great post happygirl!

I think it's important to remember that if we truly believed that what we desire is ours now, then there's no need to worry, doubt, fear, or stress out about anything. Just assume it's a done deal and stay with that feeling, and then live your life, do what you love or what makes you feel better.

I'm sure many of is can attest that it's hard to get into the feeling of our desire being accomplished now. But if we ask ourselves how we would feel, think, and act if we really had our desire accomplished now, that will tell us what feeling and thought-pattern we are aiming for and then we can find actions to get into those feelings, be it visualizing or just walking around the neighborhood and playing video games.

Also, it's easy to let fear-based thoughts hypnotize you and take you back into the abyss. When that happens, I find it easier to just accept your fears and affirm that it's OK to feel sad and afraid because you know that you are more than your fears. Meditating or just focusing the mind on anything that feels better like music, movies, video games, art, books, etc, work well here. And then when the mind is at peace, it's so much easier to visualize and get into the feelings of having our desire now. When I do this persistently, it helps me reach that sense of knowing that I got this.
 

Lovely thread!

thank you Cherished, you help me all the time with your posts and they always uplift me when I need it

great to hear that LoveIsGod, yes he does love you all the time, just focus on that because that way you allow him get close to you again
as when you focus on the lack of him, you are pushing him away, and when you focus only on the feeling you would have if he is fully back, which is the feeling of love and knowing it is all done, great and amazing as it used to be at the very beginning, then you lure him back to you
as cherished said many time and it is so true

they havent changed a bit, we did, we changed the way we perceive them, that is why we see the different reality, the minute we see them loving us again in our mind, the reality is changing, as that is what they do, they follow our feelings and focus, only because they love us so deeply that they want us to be happy

they dont have a choice but stay away if we focus on the lack of them instead of on the love and their presence

so lets feel them around, lets feel our fulfillment so we allow them where their belong all the time, in our arms, in our homes and beds :-) yuhuuu, we are the only ones in the way, they love us deeply and follow our thoughts