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Sam wrote:
Great post.
I think something that is important for us all to remember (for people who've already had a relationship with that person) is that all of the time we spend with that person, all the amazing memories, all the wonderful things they said, everything, was attracted by us. We brought those incredible relationships into our lives in the first place so we know we're all capable of having that and we all deserve it.
Amen!
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Thank you for your amazing words !!
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Love it
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AsΓ©.. Adorei.. i allways being inspired by someone hereΒ
thank you all
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Cherished wrote:
pectinase wrote:
Cherished wrote:
Well, this is YOUR reality. So you have to see what you want to see, and let that be your truth. When you allow that preferred "story" to permeate the ethers, it will begin to play out in your physical reality just as you saw it. Or even better π
This is so true, and I've seen it happen first hand many times. Sometimes, the things we worry and fret about manifest themselves before our eyes because we're CONCENTRATING and GIVING WEIGHT to them.
For example, a small example β last week I was really worried about getting a cold before I went out to a dinner with friends that I was really looking forward to. I'd not had the sniffles in a long time. I thought "I bet I get a cold and it'll ruin the night for me". Guess what happened? You betcha, I got a cold. We are so stupid sometimes!
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Lol, yup I've done that so many times. My aunt is an LOA girl too, and we spend our time together manifesting all sorts of wonderful stuff! And some days when we get a little funky in our vibe, we jibe at each other as we break a heel or drop our lunch, or whatever disaster befalls us. We have made it an art form, to absolutely roll around laughing at ourselves when we manifest crappy things. And that alone is usually enough to suddenly catapult us back to our happy vibe π
Reading this made me smile because it made me remember my mum, who did absolutely the opposite thing. I always remember howΒ she used to say "I never get colds". She wasn't really into loa much, but she always used to say this with very strong conviction, absolutely believing that it was true. She just wouldn't allow for the possibility of anything else. And it didn't matter how many people around her were coughing and sneezing, she never caught a cold, ever. I wish I knew her secret - not just about avoiding colds - but about how she maintained that rock solid belief in her own intention. :-)
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Thank you for this up-lifting post! I will be referring to it again and again!
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I really, love this post Cherished...Thank You so much
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I KNEW I was meant to click on this thread. And Rascal is one of my favourite words ;)
This is a wonderful message you have here.
I know most loa ppl don't like the words 'test' or 'challenge' BUT I truly feel now like my higher self, the bigger grander expression of me created this situation as a test.
If I'm TOTALLY honest, I wasn't happy with how the relationship was before it came to a halt, otherwise it wouldn't have! So why not take the same ingredients and make an even better cake, they've been given to you for a reason. I've just realised this, I don't want the old relationship, I want a new amazing version of it.
That's why I now feel ready to let go of the hurt and pain.
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I like this so much
NOTHING can rock you - I would love to get to that stage
as right now there are things that rock me really too much
but I will practice as that is why i am here :-)
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Cherished wrote:
So you have someone in your life that is ignoring you. Or blocking you. Or not playing ball. You want things to go a particular way, and you've realised that no matter what you try you can't control the other person. So what CAN you do?
You can control YOU. Your thoughts, your feelings, and your vibration. You can control the way that YOU see the situation. And it will ABSOLUTELY change the way the other person feels about you. It takes time, it takes commitment and it takes focus. But it works.
Perhaps you have a man or woman you want back in your life.. But as it stands, they have turned your life upside down. Maybe you're currently not talking. There are steps you can take to get things back on track.
First, you have to see things differently. You have been gifted this new way of living that will become the most MAGICAL path you've ever taken. This rascal has awakened you to a new way of experiencing life, and they are not budging until they WRESTLE you into happiness! If they came back right now, you still won't have learnt how to deliberately hold yourself in happiness and joy. If you learn this lesson now, you will adore your relationship all the more, in your newfound love for YOURSELF. And your knowledge that NOTHING can rock you. If you can practice this state of being all by yourself, independently from ANYBODY, you will have discovered how to direct yourself steadily and quickly from despair to joy. What a lesson to learn. You should be grateful that someone in your life is allowing you the space to learn this now.
Say yes to the challenge.
Forgive the past. Delete it. It absolutely, categorically is irrelevant. All of it.
See your rascal in all of their perfection. As you WANT them to be. As you DREAM they could be!
Visualise an interaction with them, where they are absolutely adoring you.
Hear everything you've always wanted to hear them say.
Know that this will unfold shortly in your physical reality, and revel in the beauty and the fabulousness of that!
Do this with any relationship you wish to enhance, or completely change. Believe that it works. Because it DOES work. 100% ππ
I think it's always good to remember