No. If you're asking the question, you're not quite there. What kind of action do you think you should take?

I've said this for ages on other boards. Enjoy life, feel good, be your best version.

Go through the motions (visualize) not in order to get something, but for the enjoyment of experiencing your desire that moment. Just enjoy that, and then enjoy life.

A great question is, what ways can I make life more enjoyable?

Adam wrote:

No. If you're asking the question, you're not quite there. What kind of action do you think you should take?

I've said this for ages on other boards. Enjoy life, feel good, be your best version.

Go through the motions (visualize) not in order to get something, but for the enjoyment of experiencing your desire that moment. Just enjoy that, and then enjoy life.

A great question is, what ways can I make life more enjoyable?

I mean on my journey to get my love back ! I visualize and script but I feel like I need to do more in order to get her back and get her to want be with me .. I workout out, I've started a blog.. I just want to make sure I'm taking the correct steps and doing everything that I need in order to attract my love

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Love5278 wrote:

Adam wrote:

No. If you're asking the question, you're not quite there. What kind of action do you think you should take?

I've said this for ages on other boards. Enjoy life, feel good, be your best version.

Go through the motions (visualize) not in order to get something, but for the enjoyment of experiencing your desire that moment. Just enjoy that, and then enjoy life.

A great question is, what ways can I make life more enjoyable?

I mean on my journey to get my love back ! I visualize and script but I feel like I need to do more in order to get her back and get her to want be with me .. I workout out, I've started a blog.. I just want to make sure I'm taking the correct steps and doing everything that I need in order to attract my love

Stop worrying and just BE. Don't do things for the sake of manifesting, do things because they make YOU feel good.

You can do all the "correct steps" like meditating and visualizing and doing affirmations but it won't work if you don't feel genuinely happy and abundant on your own.
 

Adam wrote:

This might sound counter-intuitive to some LoA teachings, but this is my philosophy. The things you want to do, like work out, start a blog, etc... don't do it for her, do it for you! For your enjoyment. It's empty if it's for someone else, because, why would she like those things... because that's something you you you love doing... she likes that about you. If you did it for her... well... maybe she would like that youd do something for her... but I guarantee she'll like it better when you do something because YOU dig it.

Wierd I know. Without even thinking about her you become more attractive. That's one way to look at it!

Thank you for that I didn't even think about it that way .. I'm working and I started my blog because I love it .. So basically I'm just supposed to focus entirely on myself and by doing more things that I love she'll just come back around ...lol it seems so weird because I guess I was always told you need to work for the thing that you want but for this I just need to not work for what I want in a sense of reaching out to her or anything

Don't let getting back together with her the end goal because that's attachment. I know it's hard, it's something I have to constantly remind myself of too.

In the beginning, I would do all the things because I thought it was a step by step process and that when I do them all, my love and I will magically reunite. That works in the beginning because it inspires you to get stuff going but when you don't see the results you're looking for, you'll end up disappointed and doubting.
Eventually, something will click and you'll realize you have to do these things FOR YOU.

So I still meditate. In the beginning, I would do LoA guided meditations and Wayne Dyer's Ah Meditation with the sole purpose of manifesting my love. Now, I meditate in silence for myself, not because it's a way to bring my love back to me.

I still visualize but only when I feel like it. When my love and I were together, I would visualize our first dance at our wedding and I would get such strong emotions from it. Sometimes, I'll visualize a proposal or us reuniting in front of friends and I would get a lump in my chest from being so happy. But if I force myself to visualize on a daily basis for the sake of it, I don't get that feeling. It ends up feeling like a routine or like work.