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hi
i am mayank from india.last time i posted on this forum i was blocked by my ex on social media and calling.now she has unblocked me from the social media but not from calling.i asked her friend to give me a chance.but i see that even after she has unblocked me..she is reluctant to talk..even after i dont plead to her or anything..even when i talk to her normally...i purchased veronica's book on kindle and went throughout it..it just says to be in no contact and visualize..if thers something more to it..please tell me..i want my girlfriend as i love her very much and she left me for absolutely no reason.even on asking she says its nothing..no reason..
i m trrying to be positive..but at first its relatively tough..but how do i get assured and what more should i do
regards
mayank
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mayank.sharma2993 wrote:
hi
i am mayank from india.last time i posted on this forum i was blocked by my ex on social media and calling.now she has unblocked me from the social media but not from calling.i asked her friend to give me a chance.but i see that even after she has unblocked me..she is reluctant to talk..even after i dont plead to her or anything..even when i talk to her normally...i purchased veronica's book on kindle and went throughout it..it just says to be in no contact and visualize..if thers something more to it..please tell me..i want my girlfriend as i love her very much and she left me for absolutely no reason.even on asking she says its nothing..no reason..
i m trrying to be positive..but at first its relatively tough..but how do i get assured and what more should i do
regards
mayank
The strongest thing you can do is GO NO CONTACT, visualize for a little bit of the day, then FOCUS on you.
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even when she is reluctant to talk..shows no interest nd practically hates me?
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let go of what she thinks and focus on feeling good and visualize and do RS.... you still have doubts and some bitter feelings!!! let go of them!!! its a process.. enjoy it!!!
consider her unblocking you as a small manifestation and be happy!!! thats my honest advice!! i feel your pain brother as i m going through the same pain!! i m just telling you what others on this forum told me!!!
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You need to live in a different reality. One that you create in your head, she's yours. She loves you, you don't contact her but create in your imagination a relationship with her and feel it as your new reality.
LOA is that thoughts become things. Make it real in your head then it becomes real in your life.
Techniques include RS, visualisation, Scripting, etc. all the information on these can be found on this site.
Things that will hold you back is feeling the sense of lack. And not being happy while sending vibrations.
So you need to focus on your happiness and realise that you create your own happiness. Then let go and trust things will manifest the way you truly desire subconsciously.
It takes time to get to that place when it's new to you but you can do it.