Sam wrote:

Try it this way instead:

Don't "cope" with not knowing what's going on. Get EXCITED because you can create whatever scenario you want. Remember, thoughts become things. So it doesn't matter what's going on right now in physical reality, what will play out in the future will be what you choose to focus on now.

So instead of wondering what he's doing or thinking, or who he's with, tell yourself he's thinking of ME all day long, he misses me SO much, he's planning how he's going to come see me and tell me how much he loves me!

Not knowing what's happening right now is actually GOOD because it allows you to easily ignore reality and focus on what you want. You get what you focus on, so focus on the most amazing love story you can imagine.

Yes.

YES.

YES!!!!!