Absolutely one for all - all for one !!! Thank you too much !!!

wow... this is very interesting.... great thread... very inspiring

Cherished wrote:

So. A few months ago when I began to really focus on attracting my guy, I met another guy who was rather gorgeous. Let's call him Exhibit A!  He was very handsome, had a great job and was extremely charismatic. I said to the universe "yes, he's great! Bring me more of this stuff, how cool to rendezvous with gorgeous men throughout my day!!" Anyway, he found me on FB and friend requested me. Of course I said yes! Obviously my heart belongs to someone else, but who doesn't like some lovely attention from an adorable boy?! 

First point I'd like to make.. Be careful what you wish for lol!

A few weeks later, my colleague randomly asked me to meet at a cafe really far out of my way. I never go there. Guess who was there? Exhibit A. Not only was he there, he was very engaging and quite taken with me. I was attending a work meeting, and later when I checked my phone he had messaged me. He thought I was beautiful. I just sent back a thumbs up and responded "shhhhh, I'm in a meeting." He sent me 5 more messages. Uh oh, he's hooked! I ignored him. I actually became really annoyed and very turned off, he said he desperately wanted to see me. I let him talk to himself on messenger for days and days. I eventually told him no, I wasn't interested so please stop messaging. He spent the next month texting me on and off. At first he was upset and disappeared for a while. Then he reappeared. He was very open and confident in the fact that he wants me badly. He totally ignored my rejection, over and over! But now he wasn't upset. Instead, kept sending me lovely, happy texts lol.

Anyway, last week we saw each other again at a function. And what I find interesting is that I'm no longer annoyed with him. For a while there he was a complete turn-off, but I feel differently now. I actually have warmed to the guy again. I don't want to be with him, but he's managed to basically behave like a a happy stalker, and now I actually must admit I quite enjoy hearing from him!

So from an LOA perspective, let's look at what's going on. I totally said to the universe bring me more of that! It was DEFINITELY delivered. The very same guy is completely infatuated with me! Good news for all of us trying to attract a specific person! I'm pretty sure if I asked him to give me his leg, he would saw it off and hand it to me right away 😂 I mean, he is BESSOTTED with me. And look at my energy. Am I obsessed in trying to attract him? NO! I simply commanded the universe to bring me more of that! When I knew very little about the power of commanding the universe!! And I let it go, confident I would meet similar guys to him in the future. And I got HIM! In spades!
My question.. How do we best emulate this kind of energy, this total indifference I suppose?' Because I didn't for one second worry or doubt or yearn for him, and he is obsessed with me! What can we learn from this, in trying to attract a specific person?

From his perspective- he saw me, I was ITV, he was ITV= attraction. Universe drew us together. His energy was off, he was wanting and needy and annoying= I rejected him. He's gone  away, decided to get happy again, and is probably doing RS on me without realising at all (imagining scenarios with us etc..) Which would explain why now I am feeling much warmer towards him.

What are your thoughts?! 😊💜

your description of that guy reminds me my guy few years back, at the beginning I didnt want him what so ever, i told him many times i want to be only friend and he tried hard for a year before i finally said yes to us as a couple and i didnt do anything for his obsession i was confident not wanting him being selfcentered busy with my life

so now i m getting back to my center my knowing that he is crazy about me and i dont have to worry, try anything as its how it is, he was always crazily in love with me, obsessing with me, asking me if i love him, am happy with him, etc. then at some point it went wrong and we exchanged the roles but i know and feel that soon we have it the other way round again, i am centered confident loving myself my life and he is obsessive and doing anything possible to just be with me

there is no obstacle in a way, there was only obstacle - me - i forgot about my power and his obsession

you reminded me and i keep reminding myself every few weeks when there is some little negative slip to some insecure woman who i used to be

:-)
 

Cherished wrote:

This is exactly what I'm practicing, and it works beautifully! What I have found though, is when my guy does reach out, it doesn't work pretending to be nonchalant.. Sooooo.. I act as though he's totally smitten, with that inner smile all day long, and he IS totally smitten.. Then as long as he's playing nice I give him my unconditional love and affection. I give it freely, not really caring if he responds or not. Interestingly, if I try to pull back and lose that "I love you and I have an endless supply of unconditional love for you" vibe, he also pulls back. There are lots of subtle differences in our energy at play here, and I'm determined to nail the perfect recipe! Keep your thoughts coming, I think we are really onto something here as well xxxxx

THIS SOUNDS JUST LIKE ME AND MY GUY .. seems  the more emotional and loving I am the more he comes around when I act like I don't care he disappears .. when u find the recipe let me know ..lol