confused1077 wrote:

so i have some questions. I just feel like i m going through the motions just like meh whatever. I think its becasue i am busy at work. In the midst of being super busy how do you guys switch your vibrations when you are in the middle of a million different things and no break? Also I am wanting to manifest something with him very soon. I am hoping too anyway so we will see. Also I really really really want something super romantic and stuff.... I want to take action and i thought that was good i feel love for him and romance but how do i know it is really just out of that and not worry? I do not feel worried

(1) Being busy and keeping your mind off him is exactly how you will manifest him. That means you are vibrating at a high level and the non-neediness is attracting him to you. No need to "switch" anything. Keep it up.

(2) Notice the choice of words: "I am wanting to manifest..." If you tell God/the Universe "I want this," God/the Universe will say, "Yes. You do. Here is more of that "wanting."" Instead, you need to believe you HAVE what it is you desire. Tell the Universe, "I have my lover in my life. I am in the perfect relationship with him. Thank you, God! Life is good. I feel abundance and joy and happiness. Thanks for the perfect relationship." See the difference?

(3) There is no need to "take action." It seems counter-intuitive, but by NOT taking action and by giving up control to the Universe, you are, in fact, taking action and taking charge and being in control. Just relax. And distract yourself. Those two things are so important to manifestation. I know you can do it.

Last edited by ForgetYourEvil (1/22/2016 11:56 am)

confused1077 wrote:

I guess i just dont like how all gaming this sounds? i mean we dont have to play games to not get what we want...it doesnt appear to be anyway. I am just chilling at work...when it is not busy right now haha and just not texting him or anything; I will be at an event tonight and he will be there how should i approach that?

It's not a game. It's a law. It's like gravity. Once you know how the law works, you can adjust your thoughts and behavior to make use of the law.

Don't message him, go to the event, and just smile and be happy and outcome independent. Don't worry about anything. Just be in the present moment and be filled with love and joy for everything you have in your life.

but in my case at work the business makes me angry haha

confused1077 wrote:

I feel like i am ignoring him but i know he will start trying to talk to me yet i want him to be madly and love with me...i don't know meh feelings but i havent texted i'm 2 days. Last time i went 6 days and he texted me. I want tonight to be so much fun I really am working on friendships so good vibes so i can make this one of the best nights ever maybe have him look my way abit. I have gotten a tan and did my hair differently and i feel so pretty so that helps with feeling good for myself. he has seen the picture of it but not in person

Again, you're "wanting" things. The Universe will deliver more of that "want." Get away from wanting and get into the mindset of already having. Also, don't count the days since you last texted him or spoke to him. Time is an illusion.
 

confused1077 wrote:

yea true...so act like i am having the best time ever?act like he is my boyfriend? 

Just have fun! Enjoy the moment. Enjoy everything in the present moment. Know that he's yours. Be happy and joyful. Be childlike. Laugh. You don't need to act at all.. just be you, be happy, and enjoy the things you have in life.