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hi everyone,
i was wondering what kinds of signs the universe gives when we are trying to manifest something. i realized i had manifested a lot of good and bad things unknowingly in the past. but i am currently new to deliberate creation of our reality. i read in an article about signs of manifestations..i would like to know what kinds of signs to look for when i m trying to manifest a specific person. my girlfriend (ex) is very far away and has absolutely cut off all contact after our break up. she said she loved me but we had issues and that she is never comming back!!! i went through the stages and now 2 months later i m happy mostly and trying to manifest her back. i see that we are happy togethere and that we can make it work. i have been waiting for a call or text but it just seems that its always on its way. i have faith it will come sometime soon but i wonder if i could get any signs!!
last week i really reached a better feeling and i got a call from my mutual friend that she had kept her status on whatsapp as " Sleepless nights" and that i could expect a call from her this week. than it let negative emotions creep in and the anger of her leaving me and the staus changed and she never called!!!
now she is off to other country on vacation with family and i m reaching that high vibe again.Β
was her status a sign???? am i concentrating on lack??? am i creating too much resistance???
please help me
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Firstly yes, you are creating resistance by looking for signs. You know how they say a watched pot never boils? Same thing. If you're looking abd waiting, you create more circumstances that leave you looking and waiting! Yes, it is common to hear from other loves or old friends when you raise your vibration. But checking status and trying to ASSUME or assign meaning is not a good idea. It can easily throw you off balance.
She left you because you attracted that behaviour from her. It's actually not her fault. So you need to reconcile that in your mind and understand that she was just playing the role that you presented to her. For her to leave you there HAD to have been fear in your vibration. So forgive her, this us about you and your fears.
Once you truly understand that you are in control of creating everything, then you're all set to begin manifesting the relationship you DO want. But it can't come from a place of need. It has to come from joy and happiness. That's why I suggest that you simply assume she's crazy in love with you, and she is thinking of you day and night! Don't look for messages right now. Focus on creating that reality in your mind. Also practice gratitude and appreciation every day. As you do this you raise your vibration. And with a higher vibration comes more faith. And then her text will appear as if by magic. Ok? So what are you going to assume while she's away?
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thank you cherished!!!
i am doing gratitude journal and scripting!! In scripting i assume she is crazy about me and us having great and fun times like old times. There is just a small problem. i like the feeling of scripting so much that whenever i take a break, i take out my journal and read what i have scripted or script a new scenario!! i read that one should visualize twice a day, i think i must be doing scripting like 4 times a day!! does this mean i m trying too hard?? should i limit scripting and visualization 2 times a day!
and also i didnt hear from my girlfriend(ex). i heard from a common friend about her status. i absolutely try avoiding any means to get any info about via social media. i just narrated the incident as told by my common friend!!
i really liked your advice and thank you for it!!!Β
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If scripting makes you feel great, script! If it feels like a chore, then you are trying too hard so you should do something else that you enjoy. We aren't worried about not hearing from her, that's old news-stop bringing it up already! π When you are busy getting happy and learning LOA with your forum friends here, you won't notice that she's not texting.. And THEN she will text.
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hey thanks!!! thats actually great!!!
tho i would love to share a success story using LOA... so basically i m a equtiy trader who has been trading since i was like 17. i dont know y but i just love trading!! so i guess a couple of years back i wanted to start my own trading firm and stop trading for others... somehow it didnt materialize!! now a month back when i first came across LOA that was the first thought that crossed my mind!!
i scripted the event and a congratulatory scene!!
a week later old friends called in and we started on working on the idea. i got such a huge response that one trading firm is simply not enough to handle all clients
Today as we speak, my first trading firm " Ardent Capital" has been incorporated and me and my partner have already started working on Second trading Firm which i believe will be started in a couple of month!
i simply love trading and i m really happy that i can run a firm doing that!!!
Its a small success story but still one i guess!!!!
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The excitement and energy you just poured into your manifesting story- that's EXACTLY the energy you need to emulate in relation to your girl!
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i guess thats what i m trying!! thanks a lot for your support!!!!
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That's exactly the energy you need to have when you are manifesting your ex. You need to continue on with your day with something else that you enjoy. To me, it sounds like work is the way to go. You are passionate about your work in trades and that makes you happy. You need to be working on a happier version of yourself so that she will want to be with you in the future. Try not to have any negative feelings nor doubts this will work outΒ All is good and you have a future with her already, she is just on vacation.
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DumpedinSept wrote:
That's exactly the energy you need to have when you are manifesting your ex. You need to continue on with your day with something else that you enjoy. To me, it sounds like work is the way to go. You are passionate about your work in trades and that makes you happy. You need to be working on a happier version of yourself so that she will want to be with you in the future. Try not to have any negative feelings nor doubts this will work out
Β All is good and you have a future with her already, she is just on vacation.
Hey thanks for your kind words!!! i love my work and very lucky to do what i do love!!! as far as my girlfriend goes all i know is that she loves me a lot !!!!!
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It's also worth noting that I've had many amazing manifestations turn up into my reality without any signs. Sometimes they just go "yup, I've arrived" without any hints.