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Hi guys!Β
I'm new to the forum. Basically I want to attract back my ex and used the law of attraction and prayed quite a bit. Finally I was seeing signs of things working out for me. He wished me happy birthday and somehow he saw a post from a guy on my Facebook wall and warned me about this particular guy. It seemed like my ex was sort of jealous even though he had said "not being jealous or anything." My ex asked to see me when I was back in town and I thought this was a sure sign that the universe and God was on my side. The next day, we both had a laugh about that same guy and I asked my ex to tell me if he had better plans for Australia day and to tell me. He replied saying "dont worry, I will ". I thought this was another sign and was quite happy with my progress.Β
He then tagged me in some puppy videos and at that point I knew that god and the universe was delivering what I truly wanted to me. However, when I got back in town, I sent him a quick message notifying him and he still has'n't read that message. I sent him a text this morning and he replied really nonchalantly and in a non caring way. I quickly became really anxious and still am quite anxious. I'm not sure if I can do this anymore and I'm quite discouraged. I just don't understand how the universe and God can deliver results but quickly have them gone.Β
Does my ex still care about me? and how can I move my situation forward? I'm just very confused about everything and my energy is all over the place? Do I even have a chance at all now?
My friend did speak to him about me, which I had no knowledge of until today. I'm not sure whether that was what triggered his poor reaction to me...How can I better my situation?
love and light xx
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He's simply all over the place because your energy is now all over the place. Where you went wrong was assuming something bad when he didn't immediately reply. There are a billion reasons why he may not have replied sooner. But the second you threw doubt and anxiety into the mix, you also threw your manifestation off track. It's no big deal, but it does mean that you can't assume bad things!
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thanks so much! what's my next step though and how can I get my energy back on track to resume things again I've noticed that when I'm out of wack, it takes me a while to stop getting anxious.Β
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confusedone wrote:
thanks so much! what's my next step though and how can I get my energy back on track to resume things again
I've noticed that when I'm out of wack, it takes me a while to stop getting anxious.Β
Think about how much you love him and feel that. Be comforted by your love for him.
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The one thing I can't understand is, how do we know it's time to move on? Does the universe or does God let us know when to? I really do believe these small signs were letting me know that I am able to manifest what I want. But I can't help but doubt my requests being answered sometimes
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So my friend was talking to my ex and he said that he didn't plan on getting back with me anytime soon and that we are just good friends...
Was whatever that just happened not signs from the universe about him wanting me back? Now I'm even more anxious than before and I'm not sure what to do. I keep wanting to seek help from everyone but it's driving everyone else insane.
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confusedone wrote:
The one thing I can't understand is, how do we know it's time to move on? Does the universe or does God let us know when to? I really do believe these small signs were letting me know that I am able to manifest what I want. But I can't help but doubt my requests being answered sometimes
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If you truly believe that you create your reality then you don't need to move on. You create, manifest, and then live it, which inspires you to create even more!
But if you doubt your manifesting abilities, you're in for a rough ride! So I think a better question is how can you increase your faith and belief that LOA works? And for that we have hundreds of wonderful threads where you'll find what you're looking for π
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did I manifest all of this though? I thought these were sure signs that he was on his way back on a path towards me. But now it seems like he's not anymore. I know people can say differently to what they mean but I'm so lost. I feel so hopeless.
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You manifest every experience xxxx
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confusedone wrote:
So my friend was talking to my ex and he said that he didn't plan on getting back with me anytime soon and that we are just good friends...
Was whatever that just happened not signs from the universe about him wanting me back? Now I'm even more anxious than before and I'm not sure what to do. I keep wanting to seek help from everyone but it's driving everyone else insane.
You can't take everything he says as absolute. He also knew that whatever he tells your friend would get back to you. And truthfully, he said "anytime soon." I would LOVE to hear that from my love because that means there's still a chance!
Think of it this way: is he the one for you? How long are you willing to wait?Β