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Acting as if
Hello everyone
I have a question. Is it necessary to do things such as make space in the bedroom, in the drawers , sleep on one side of the bed, buy extra food and put out an extra towel etc. for your love OR is the feeling of being in a relationship with your true love enough? I ask as I've read peoples success stories who do all these things.
- TheGiver
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IMO it's not necessary if you have the feeling. It's more to condition your subconscious to believe this. Sometimes doing these things actually emits negative energy because you tend to think "I NEED to do all these steps in order to get them back" so you sometimes do them out of desperation. Not saying that's always the case, but oftentimes.
Bottom line: it's necessary if you think it is and if it's making you feel good.
- Berryluv
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Re: Acting as if
TheGiver wrote:
IMO it's not necessary if you have the feeling. It's more to condition your subconscious to believe this. Sometimes doing these things actually emits negative energy because you tend to think "I NEED to do all these steps in order to get them back" so you sometimes do them out of desperation. Not saying that's always the case, but oftentimes.
Bottom line: it's necessary if you think it is and if it's making you feel good.
Took the words right out of my mouth. It's all about the feeling.. if you already have the feeling of, you don't even need to do the actions to pretend. The feelings should be so real as if you had it now. And always focus on the end result of what you desire.
- TheGiver
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Before I go to bed I like to whisper good night to my guy though, and then pretend as if I'm cuddling him as I fall asleep 
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- Cherished
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Agreed 😊 I never do that stuff. But when I want something I make damn sure I'm holding it happily in my imagination! Those things are just props to help you get into the feeling place of having it already. You can do that with just your mind. The only thing that ever counts is your vibration 💜🌈
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Cheer
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Re: Acting as if
Thank you, these are my thoughts too. The feeling of love is the most important thing. The only pretending action I've done was when I bought some men's shower gel, but I ended up using it all when mine ran out :D
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Lol, I hope you enjoyed every ounce of it 😜
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- veggiepizzaforever
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For over a week now, I've been sleeping on my side of the bed, leaving the other side open for my love-- complete with pillows (I have 4 pillows so 2 for me 2 for him). Let me tell ya-- I don't like sleeping on one side of a queen-sized bed lol. These past few days, I end up rolling into the middle or sleeping diagonally but when I hug my body pillow, I imagine hugging him and it makes me feel nice.
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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Just to throw in my 2 cents here...It depends on your perspective. If it's something that makes you feel good, positive, optimistic, happily expecting, then go for it...clear out that closet, get them that toothbrush, bathrobe, etc...If, on the other hand, it makes you feel sad in any way, then don't do it. If it reminds you of what you don't have, then don't do it. Me, I've done all of the things mentioned, but to me it felt more like a daily reminder of the things/people lacking in my life. What worked better for me was doing things that I did purely for myself to get ready for him...like making sure my passport is up-to-date to be able to travel with him, learn his language, etc. ... Things that actually were about ME only but in the long run will also get me ready for him. I hope I'm making sense here...
Yep you're making perfect sense Learning a new language is amazing for yourself also. It doesn't make any difference to my mood clearing out closets and stuff but I can imagine it can make the feeling more real for some people, so as you say , in that case it would be a good thing.
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