Thank you, that does clarify it a bit for me. 

I guess I am just weary with the obessive/miserable feeling. I am a mature woman who has been through things like this mny times over the years; I think I'm surprised even at myself for getting so wrapped up in it all this time.

Last edited by ellen (1/17/2016 1:57 pm)

Hi,

I haven't read much of Veronica's  material, so I don't know what exactly SHE would recommend. From what I read in TheGiver's post, Veronica's philosophy seems to mesh with my own in many ways, including that we don't need to think about a certain something all throughout the whole day to attract it. In many cases it would be counterproductive.

From my understanding, we don't need to think "the right thoughts", specifically centered on a desire, all throughout the day about any desire, no matter what the desire is! Make sense? If it doesn't it will at some point.

That said, there's a segway into an intrinsic quality of the Law. THINGS COME BACK, out of the blue, not necessarily when you're thinking about them, and always because you have a dominant belief about them in some way. There could be a core belief in you, with a vibration that you can feel, when something like this happens. That part of you, in some way, longs to be honored somehow.

Call it a core belief, or a feeling or vibration, but we can translate it to words and write it down, and then we can visually see a better idea of what's going on. I briefly wrote about an exercise on TheGiver's thread here: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=1204. In the exercise you have an opportunity at some point to take action on what you find. You can EFT a belief, turn something into an affiirmative affirmation to repeat, or a meditation etc etc. This is the time to create a new vibration that will attract the desire, the desire that is counter to what the current belief will allow.

Be persistent. Be INSISTENT. When you change this core belief, when you make a new belief dominant, you'll attract as such. Don't let up on having this new feeling or this new belief. You won't be able to attract the opposite once you make it set. I promise you! You'll attract all sorts of things aligned with the new vibration including... ___________. Whatever that is for you.

I hope this helps.
Kind Regards.

Last edited by Adam (1/17/2016 3:16 pm)

When you visualize  you spend about 10 minutes or so  creating exactly what would be your hearts desire   with a happy heart  and believing its real   ( kinda like a daydream on steroids)   Then you forget about it  and go on with your day  and to make the magic happen  you really have to forget about your desire.    It takes a while to perfect as many are still traumatized about the breakup   and all that hurt and negativity goes into your processes     All the incessant thinking about needing  and desperation keeps it from happening      SO when you can visualize from a place where you would like it to happen  and then no longer counting the minutes  or obsessing  in thought or word  about what you want  things start to pull together 

There's a huge difference between obsessing/not getting on with life and visualising/manifesting. The former is not recommended here!  😊 As other's have pointed out,  LOA is tricky to grasp at first,  and you may very well start off my feeling obsessed.  But you will come to understand the art of manifestation,  and the rewards that will quickly follow.  Visualising, scripting, and all other processes are just that.. Activities designed to propel you into higher vibrations. You need to learn how to spend more time there, if you are to experience the magic of manifesting! As you raise your vibe, you have access to new, more exciting thoughts and feelings. And from that comes more clarity about your desires. Which further increase your vibration and feelings of wellbeing. And THEN your physical reality will begin to change. You will begin to manifest. It's a fabulous way to live- consciously creating your life rather than manifesting by default. You need only employ these processes when you feel inspired to do so- and then you make your way through the day with as much gratitude and grace as you can muster. If something feels like a chore or is silly in your opinion, don't do it. Always choose in every moment, the thing that feels better to you. Have you read Ask and it is Given? Fantastic book. 😊🌈