I did no contact for a week and honestly that was 2 weeks ago. In 6 days he texted me asking if i was alive because he had not heard from me . He was so eager to see what i as doing..., but how come that didnt push for any commitment? Like I responded and he came over...and things happened...and then just got back on the cycle. He told me he didnt like that we didnt talk for so long...it was only 6 days. Also today i guess i tried to talk to him. nad yesterday he kept referring to me as an ex...saying that we should stop sleeping together but he doesnt want to. idk it seemed like i was just there for that where as weeks ago and last week i didnt feel that way. What do you guys think about that part? or does it matter?

Last edited by confused1077 (1/20/2016 4:56 pm)

You need to give it time. I wouldn't call it 'inspired action' at all because you come from a place of expectations. Free yourself of pain, expectations, focus on what you do not want. Have a clear mind, and lighter and happier emotions will follow. 

Let him come to you in full force. You can do this when you are disciplined enough to visualize your desired outcome. You can even make him gay if you want simply by creating that version of him in your mind. My point is, you are very powerful -- you shouldn't be at the mercy of anyone else or your current reality. Let nothing and no one get in your way of creating what you want. You need to realize this. Otherwise, you fall into the trap of unhealthy relationship cycles. 

confused1077 wrote:

well i feel very good when i visualize and i feel like that i can manifest him its just having it happen. I just don't like not doing anything or acting on it because if i feel like i want to message him and i feel good shouldn't i? I am using visualization ... i just feel like me doing nothing will take longer so to speak and i do not want this to take a year 6 months. Because it has already been 2 years since we broke up

Let me ask you one thing. You broke up 2 years ago. And how have you been feeling during this 2 years?

We are always using the LOA..that´s the problem... and the solution.
Are you sure you will be with him?

when someone is pregnant... does she start asking.. Am i still pregnant?.. And now..do i continue pregnant? Why doesn't he/she born yet?
You just wait.. patiently
It's done. You plant the seed. The relationship is yours.. now take care of yourself. Use the LOA for the others aspects of your life. Create your ideal life. Love you and your life.
Love you, and your "pregnancy".. but don´t get anxious.. otherwise you can provoke an abortion.