PS: but the bad terms is the past in my head already, so all is good :-) i feel again like things are just round the corner
its important not to give attention to the past mistakes, his/hers or yours

leoSourceenergy wrote:

does anyone have any success stories of trying to get there ex back after more then 6 months? or if your love is with another in a relationship, i also made a lot of mistakes of contacting to much and my ex jumped into a new relationship instantly after being together for 3 years, and she was very negative towards me after, it was so confusing to me because i was trying so hard to keep things together in the end and being really positive towards her before and after the breakup ;)

Yes read all these stories !
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Love5278 wrote:

happygirl wrote:

i havent seen my guy for two years and then last summer i did 1 week of feel it real, something like the 25 days challenge and then he suddenly appeared in here for business, never comes to Europe and he lives in US, he was very loving and he acted like we never ended it, he was all over me like if i was the last women in the Universe, since then we are on bad terms thanks to me :-)

but what i am trying to say, it does work once you get to the feeling its all already done and happening and at the same time you remove all the negativeness (which i didnt) and move past any expectation ( which i didnt either :-))

we are apart for some 2,5 years now

Wow we have a similar story on how long it's been .. I love how everyone can relate to each other ... You need to teach me your ways of visulailzation

yes we have :-)

I did the feeling it real as Neville Goddard talks about, so all I did was just every evening I just lied on my bed and felt like we were cuddling each other, as we used to cuddle all the time and we both loved it, it felt nice and i felt his arms around me, telling me the sweet things into my ears and that was it, then i havent done anything else, went about my day as normal but at that time i was very detached, we werent talking to each other for many months back then and i didnt expect anything, definitely not him coming in here and then when i got the message he will be in Europe in a few days and he wants to meet me, i nearly fainted, on that day i was very cool and we walked around my city as in the past, holding hands doing all the boyfriend girlfriend things, but i didnt sleep with him as didnt want that, he did obviously, he was touching me all the time like if he was scared i will disappear again, but then he left and i guess i started to be expectant of more and needing some proper things to happen, it wasnt enough, then we were discussing to meet up again, he seem to want to come again, but then it seemed like he is less interested and i got impatient and forced him to tell me yes or no, so that was mistake but i didnt mind, i m very proud woman and dont like this hesitance after what happened, maybe its wrong but it s how i m

something similar happened before end of the year actually, he wanted to come but not the time i wanted and then i got impatient and from his actions felt he doesnt want commitment and i didnt like that idea to be a few day in a year girlfriend so i called it off completely

no am in no contact and dont expect anything really, but i do visualize, that is all i do, no expectation but feeling it real, only when it feels good, when i feel on some day its not nice, i stop completely and focus on my work, but this time i do the feeling real where he is crazy about me but at the same time he calls me "my lovely wife, how are you feeling" etc. basically i imagine past our marriage and me being pregnant, i also do the visualization where i talk to someone to tell them how i am happy in the marriage and we are really so happy both of us and so on :-) i do that usually once a day
before sleep i feel him being there and during the night i usually go to the bathroom and imagine him being either awake or just asking me if all is ok, etc. in the morning i do the same, now i keep remembering it that when i wake up i feel like he is cuddling me for a second then i go about my day
sometimes i just ask myself during the day: how would the woman whose partner came back running after her asking her to marry him, how would she feel? how would you feel if he was your husband and so proud of you, jealous of you in a way you like and keeping eye on you as he never wants to lose you? that always makes me feel so good,, self confident, etc.also sometimes i do the mirror excercise, to look into my eyes and say you are Mrs ....., you are Mrs ... you are happily married, then i change it to I am Mrs....