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So I see the two friends I want to reach out back to me ( I tried to text but got nothing) likes everyone else's stuff on Facebook but mine. The cabin trip is next week still nothing. I have heard from others which is a step I think saying keep up the process? I just am on a time crunch. Trying not to get discouraged. Be thankful the stuff that is coming. How to you guys get yourself out of being discouraged ? I know we can just focus on what we want and I will do that but anything else anyone does is welcome. Also I m curious anyone have any stories big or small of loa working for you? Just keeping up positive morale with great stories π
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It's a difficult one. You need to be in a place where the outcome is not important to you. Plan something else that will be fun if you don't go. Say to yourself if you don't go there would be a good reason the universe is keeping you away from something that would happen there, or you may miss something at home. I read a story about someone who used LOA and couldn't understand why it wasn't working one night on a late coach home. She missed her transfer and had a long detour. But it save her life because the coach she missed crashed. Now that is extreme but it's an example.
Tell the universe you would like to go but trust that the best thing will happen either way. Then forget about it.
And focus on the good friends you have and be grateful for all the blessings you have. It's hard sometimes being rejected but it's usually because your better of anyway.
Hope you feel better soon.
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Hello,
A few years ago I wanted to reconnect with some old friends of mine. Well to be honest, I just wanted friends again. I did a subliminal video while I slept and the next day I joined facebook. My page was added with, idk, maybe 50 people I knew from back then, including old friends and an ex girlfriend. I just went with it even though I had a sort of falling out with them, but I had over 100 other people to get to know better within a week and people to hang out with. The old friends were insistent on hanging out, camping, playing music, all the **** and shenanigans. It was cool.
Unfortunately I had a falling out again with them lol. I found some skelotons I couldn't get over.
Shiit. I wonder what they're up to though...
Meh.
Regardless, I enjoyed hanging out with them and met new people along the way, reconnected with some other old friends, and now have found even better friendships (due to some more vibe work).
I don't remember visualizing anything, and I didn't plan anything out. I didn't even really want to be friends with them again. I didn't not want to either I guess. I just didn't give a damn either way.
So, don't give a damn about it either way. Don't give too much of a damn. Know that your life is and will be great regardless... because of the visualizations you do, the affirmations and other things, and because of other great things about your life and life itself. Ya know?
Last edited by Adam (1/17/2016 4:16 pm)
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I do understand, but if I have to think that way about the cabin trip and it possibly not happening wouldn't that be the same way about my ex? IΒ know for sure I want him and only him. I know that may seem attached to the outcome but I know he is the one I want. I guess I m kinda confused as to it states that if you want it will come act like it is yours, but then if IΒ suppose to act like having him going on the cabin trip and these people contacting is happening then why should I plan other things and stuff? I hope that makes sense. Like how am I suppose to act like I have it and then plan like it is not going to happen.
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So i want to do something today. Text some people etc, but i want feel good about it. I think if something does not happen the way i want it just know i can always change it. is that a good way to be about trying to manifest? Like if you want to just text them and see what happens just do it? Opinions? I m also visualizing too.Β
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That sounds good. Detachment works well because there's no fear. No matter what happens, you know you will feel great. Not just okay or good, but GREAT.
It can't go "wrong" because you feel good and you know what's important, AND, your intention is effective because of the way you feel.
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well i am texting now and i am trying to whip away the fear. he is not very receptive today so i am just trying to think things are always changing its okΒ