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Long story short... my mom is having an affair...because she thinks that my dad had did the same thing to her and she has fallen out of love ... I'm so stressing out that my home is no longer a home now... it's falling apart.., I'm sorry that I know I can't help this... and brought a negative thread for you guys... I just needed a place to talk this thing out... or I think I'll be crazy....
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It must be hard for you to get your head round this. Have you told your mom how you feel?
Remember whatever happens between your parents it doesn't affect how they feel about you. You can approach this the same way you would with anything you want to manifest. Uses all the techniques the same.
But most importantly you need to picture both your parents happy. Try to talk to them often and keep them close to you and the communication flowing.
You can talk here. Some people on here will surely come along with great advice. You will be ok. Keep positive even if you find it hard.
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Hi awesomepeace, your words helps to calms me down. Thanks a looot! I talked to her just now but she says I have no right to tell her what is wrong and right. She said that I can stop seeing her as a mom... she say she don't want to talk to me because she thought I would be on her side..she said she's disappointed on me...
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Don't approach her with anger. Approach her with understanding. She sounds like she is not being reasonable with you right now. But I think she's in defense mode. One big shock for me growing up was that parents can be very childish too and not always able to do or say the right thing because of their feelings.
When things calm down., approach the subject with something like. How you want her to be happy you didn't realise that she had been unhappy and felt she needed to find affection from someone else outside the family. Say you don't want to make her feel guilty. You want to be able to get your head round the whole thing, and would like her to simply hear your feelings.
It is a difficult situation and a lot for you to burden. The LOA pros on here would say picture a different reality.
maybe do some Remote influence on your dad. Get him to say I love your mom so much I forgot how much, I need to show her how much, I need to make her know I appreciate her. That is just a suggestion.
Be strong and try to show your mom some understanding she will appreciate it and help keep the calm between you.
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Hey awesomepeace, thanks for being there when I needed someone.. she told me that she didn't want to see me as a daughter anymore so she ignore me these 2 days.. like I'm the one who's wrong...she just said that she isn't happy with dad anymore.. argh so complicated
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Long story short... my mom is having an affair...because she thinks that my dad had did the same thing to her and she has fallen out of love ... I'm so stressing out that my home is no longer a home now... it's falling apart.., I'm sorry that I know I can't help this... and brought a negative thread for you guys... I just needed a place to talk this thing out... or I think I'll be crazy....
Honey That is so hard for you Do you still live at home? makes it even harder Sweetheart I know this is hard to do but try to ignore the situation You have nothing to do with what happened think only loving thoughts to both parents shower them with loving thoughts hey do some visualization they are back in love and they work it out
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Hey awesomepeace, thanks for being there when I needed someone.. she told me that she didn't want to see me as a daughter anymore so she ignore me these 2 days.. like I'm the one who's wrong...she just said that she isn't happy with dad anymore.. argh so complicated
Wish I could help more.
She is being very unfair but as Barbiedoll says all you can do now is ignor the situation. She will come round. It may feel hard to accept but you must just show love and visualise another reality.
I hope you feel better soon x