It honestly does work, especially negatively when you think negative.. Going off my other thread before, lately everyone has been saying they see me as a friend, but I'm not their type.. and that's what I've been thinking about... so guess what?  I keep getting more of it... I keep getting more of, "you're not my type"     you know what's funny?  I bet if I wrote a different chapter, these same women who are telling me this, would be telling me  "you may not be my type, but I would make an exception for you and date you"