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I'm not getting into the debate about what or what's not possible with Law of Attraction because I believe anything is, that's a conversation for another time.
In terms of relationships, love and lovers, you only need to look through the Success Stories section on The Secret's website to see the sheer volume of people who've managed to attract people back into their lives to start new relationships. It is totally, absolutely possible. 100%.
Send your ex lots of loving energy, trust you will get back together, and let it go. But don't suffer because – quite frankly – nobody is worth sacrificing your happiness for. If you are convinced she is 'the one', then the universe will make that happen. Have faith, and continue living an amazing, full, abundant life until it happens.
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Together -I think you actually have in a strange way understood visualization , like you say you can imagine all day long you're walking on the moon but you have a problem believing that, so you can imagine yourself doing it all day and there's no chance it will happen....like 0%, because it's about belief. Visualization only works if you can conceive that there is a possibility of achieving your goal and eventually by visualizing your desired outcome, you will start to see the possibility of it getting higher and you will start to see paths to your goal you never saw before. I can imagine myself married to Brad Pitt all day but I know that's just not going to happen because I don't believe it could ever happen. But if I actually started to think, ok he's coming to a premiere, I could try see him, then maybe talk to him, I could manifest meeting him and then from there who knows maybe I could end up married to him! haha but I also have no real interest and I don't see it happening so it's not going to happen .
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I do not want to challenge the idea here, if you believe in solopsism (I guess that would be the closest philopsophical definition for LOA ..very close to idealism) then it works all the way indeed.
I'm actually even quiet confident that I created that relation.
It is like you are pregnant or not pregnant. You can't be a little bit pregnant.
Thank you very much for the brilliant answers.
Pectinase - she is the one, there is not a single cell in my body that would argue this belief. So actually, I can just be relaxed and let it go. No more need to stress about it.
Shootingstar - in your story, you would indeed argue inspired action is essential I guess. Manifest a meeting or a text message and then go from there. I think I have to start very small. Just with a simple text message, because I really believe that can and will happen.
Actually I would just leave it and forget it and focus on myself, this will happen. Because I already asked it.
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Exactly! Let it come to you.
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Well I listened to a lot of Abraham who did say that inspired action is very beneficial, but it must be inspired, like not hugely thought out, like say you're in the shower and thinking about shampoo and then you have a flash thought like 'I should go to that shop where she said she got shampoo because I need new shampoo!' and then maybe you run into her there but it wasn't because you went there hoping to run into her, you just had the idea to go there for your new shampoo and it worked out that way....or maybe the perfect words just come to you and it all feels just so good and perfect with no anxiety or resistance or thoughts and you just feel perfect about it and you don't even need to think about it. But if you don't have an inspired idea for action, then do nothing.
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Yes manifesting a text is good maybe try manifest a text from a friend or family member first, someone you have zero resistance to, like you wouldn't really care if they did or didn't text you but you can imagine getting a text from them and that might build up your confidence about manifesting a text from her
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@ shooting star Wow that's a fantastic idea really!
However I tried that once before, with an old friend, wanted to get news from him, and it didn't work.
I did get a text from him but only after I contacted him first.
Probably because I did not do it well ? Resistance ? Technique was sloppy..
So I have to probably check the video of Veronica again on this, and first really focus on asking this in a correct way. I'm sure if I do this 1 week (5days) including affirmations and RS, then sooner or later I will be manifesting the text from someone I
I will manifest a text from a faily memeber I do not often speak but am in good relation with.
Manifesting a text from someone I speak daily is not really honest ! And asking from someone I haven't spoken in 5years is also to hard as a start ! Ok , there I start ! I will keep you updated !
(great analogy with the shampoo by the way) (just get the shampoo when you need to)
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Thanks haha I would say , but not entirely sure, that the reason you didn't get the text from your friend was because you were too intense on your focus on getting a text i.e 'I must get this text, if I don't get this text either LOA is not real or I'm terrible at it' or maybe you just kept thinking about it in a way like 'I wonder if he's going to text now, or in the next hour...anytime soon?' better to say 'I got a text from him cool!' and go on about your day busying up your mind and just calm and hopefully maybe even forgetting you thought about the text because that's when it tends to happen!