barbidoll wrote:

I think its when we let go of the desperation  and all the misery and negativity   then especially if we visualize and send out our desires to the Universe  they come back       It seems  ( and I am extremely new at this as well)   all the desperate negative heartbroken emotions   hold back our getting what we desire       detachment is not losing the desire for us to return to our love   Its letting go of the desperation  and angust   which is so very hard      I can feel a change in my level of desperation and negativity  when I listen to Veronica  on Youtube      That hope   her assurance that he will call  and I will have that happy back   fuels me     

It's definitely takes a lot  of blind faith to believe it will happen but I feel the only way we will know it will happen is if we let go off the fear. He will call you!

I don't think you have to forget thinking about them but make sure that when you do think of your person it's because it makes you happy and not because you are afraid and wondering what they're doing. But, I think for most people they have to literally stop thinking about the person otherwise they will continue to have fear and doubt. So, if you can think about them and be happy then continue to think about them but if thinking about them makes you sad then stop thinking about them and I think that will help.