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confused1077 · 12/31/2015 12:56 pm

I m just so frustrated because it seems like it starts working and then it stops... that is what is so hard

barbidoll · 12/31/2015 1:06 pm

The way I see it is it starts to work and you have these little glimmers of doubt worry anxiety whatever so back to the drawing board you go Its human that is what the retraining is to teach us not to worry the Universe has our back once you master that POW everything falls into place I think the Universe also sometimes holds us back because it knows we will make the same mistakes again or in our head we know this and hold our manifestations back So what you have to do is master LOA feeling happy and good all the time state your desire and detach from the outcome

confused1077 · 12/31/2015 1:07 pm

I am trying to feel good i just i hate the no responses and i really want him to keep up what he is doing....which i mean what has been going on

happygirl · 12/31/2015 1:11 pm

I know very well what you are saying confused1077 and I am sure all of us do

The advice you heard as response to your post is 100% true, let him come to you, there is no other way to do that.

I have been working on myself for more than two years to be back with my love and each time we lose patience, each time we feel sad or depressed because we keep living in lack and seeing what is instead of what we want to happen while living as happily as we can, we are pushing our love even further away from us than they are.

So the only solution is to be patient, try to eliminate your negative feelings and do everything possible to be happy in your life even if it should be without your love for the time being

you have to be ready and willing to let him go completely for him to ever come back fully as you want him to.

If you dont do that, he may come but not the way you want, not fully and not in a committed relationship you deserve.

Let him win your heart again as everyone says and in the mean time just focus on yourself and other desires you have in life.

confused1077 · 12/31/2015 1:18 pm

I m just so tired and angry and frustrated i have worked on myself a lot. He has said the other day he likes the person i had become. This was before i got jealous....I don't know why things seemed to be falling into place....and now...

confused1077 · 12/31/2015 2:36 pm

I have worked on myself which is why he can tell certain things...i just feel like its always work work work work work. That is tiring its like am i really that horrible that i need to keep working to get it? its like i have done alot i am better then alot of those girls out there and for him to even make some of the moves he has been making he has to have seen that. Its like can i please just get over this hump to the other side

ForgetYourEvil · 12/31/2015 2:40 pm

confused1077 wrote:
I have worked on myself which is why he can tell certain things...i just feel like its always work work work work work. That is tiring its like am i really that horrible that i need to keep working to get it? its like i have done alot i am better then alot of those girls out there and for him to even make some of the moves he has been making he has to have seen that. Its like can i please just get over this hump to the other side

Trust me when I tell you... you're not in any condition to attract him back by initiating contact. He needs to initiate all contact with you. It's the only way it works. Relax. Don't feel any lack. Just relax and feel good. Feel at peace. It's hard to do at first, but once you start doing fun, happy, healthy things, you start to gain momentum and the Universe will reward you!!!!!

BUT please don't contact him. He will reach out to you if you stop contacting him.

confused1077 · 12/31/2015 2:42 pm

I had gone before with no contact ...I have i have done this all before that is why this is very frustrating because it feels like its working for everyone else but not me

happygirl · 12/31/2015 2:50 pm

right now he seems to be in the center of your Universe, that is what you are vibrating
why is that and why is this and why is it so hard? still you are feeling and seeing the lack of his presence, attention

focus on yourself instead, that is why the NC is necessary so you can get centered and you replace him
take him from that pedestal and put yourself there, you are the only person who can be at the center of your Universe, when you do that, you will start to feel happy, joyful
and your only why will be why I didnt realize earlier how happy I can be just being me and living this life
then and only then he will start to come back properly as you will no longer need him to make you happy
I know it seems hard at the moment

but you got into the spiral of negativeness and we all are trying to get you out of that by suggestions and you are so much in your negative spiral that it seems like you dont even notice what we are saying

and I fully understand that, I was there too but the thing is nobody can really help you but yourself

we can try to help, but you have to step away from that spiral, you and only you have the power to do that

and I am sure you will get out of that negative spiral and see that it is quite easy to pivot your thoughts
and get back on track

its not really harder or easier if it has been a long time or short time since the split up, its only about us

some of us like me, it has been few years, some other people have been away from the relationship only few months so it can seem harder for them than us (or for some it can seem easier) but it is neither easier nor harder

its how we make it, some people need more time to heal and see things, others need less time to start to change the negativeness to positiveness

its a journey and even we have same aim, to be back with our love, the journeys are separate for each of us, as we are on different life paths with different experiences and lectures to learn

try to pivot your thoughts

try any technique just to make yourself little better

try to do the wouldnt it be nice if

wouldnt it be nice if I felt a bit better?
wouldnt it be nice if i could put myself ahead of everyone?
wouldnt it be nice if I was patient and strong again as I used to be?
wouldnt it be nice if I felt happy even without him?

happygirl · 12/31/2015 2:54 pm

listen to ForgetYourEvil!!!
Its so true
and if its gonna help you, its been more than two years for me too, not everyone is so successful
we are on individual journeys, we all are trying our best to feel good
its not easier or harder for none of us, its how we make it, how much we are used to worry and stress, and so on

take it like to get him back is just the cherry on the top of the cake but the whole cake is the journey of selfdevelopment, learning to be happy by yourself, enjoying your life now no matter what
and when you do that, you will get the cake, the most beautiful cake - happy life and him returning to you will be the additional cherry on the top of the cake

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