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Cherished wrote:
You fail because you are still telling the same story you were months and months ago. Where there is another girl and he is difficult, and that LOA doesn't work for you. You have to understand that LOA is working perfectly, reflecting exactly what you are fearing. You can't try to possess a person, because they will run for the hills with that kind of energy. You have to work on yoyrself, so that you feel better about YOU. So that you put less importance on him, and more on YOU. This is no competition between yourself and a bunch of his other suitors- it's about you and you. If you can get to a place where you understand your own self-worth, your own power and beauty.. Then he will feel it and you will attract him back. But this energy of deliberately trying to prevent him from thinking of other women- it's really unattractive. And unnecessary. If you poured as much attention into yourself as you do into focussing on all the other women in his life, he would turn back to you. Something to ponder. π
I agree with Cherished. We all want you to succeed but you're repeating the same story. You can marry him if you allow it to happen. Don't give up rather focus on being with him.
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
I've sent an email to lanie asked her what should I do with using lanie method for the situation of mine right now, she asked me to move on and attract someone better..she said she just figured out in life that if things are meant to be they will be..argh I'm so confused.
That is confusing. Why would she say such thing???
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Blessedck wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
I've sent an email to lanie asked her what should I do with using lanie method for the situation of mine right now, she asked me to move on and attract someone better..she said she just figured out in life that if things are meant to be they will be..argh I'm so confused.
That is confusing. Why would she say such thing???
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Ikr, that's what I received this morning, I'm in shocked that she said so.. it kinda brings me down.
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Blessedck wrote:
Cherished wrote:
You fail because you are still telling the same story you were months and months ago. Where there is another girl and he is difficult, and that LOA doesn't work for you. You have to understand that LOA is working perfectly, reflecting exactly what you are fearing. You can't try to possess a person, because they will run for the hills with that kind of energy. You have to work on yoyrself, so that you feel better about YOU. So that you put less importance on him, and more on YOU. This is no competition between yourself and a bunch of his other suitors- it's about you and you. If you can get to a place where you understand your own self-worth, your own power and beauty.. Then he will feel it and you will attract him back. But this energy of deliberately trying to prevent him from thinking of other women- it's really unattractive. And unnecessary. If you poured as much attention into yourself as you do into focussing on all the other women in his life, he would turn back to you. Something to ponder. π
I agree with Cherished. We all want you to succeed but you're repeating the same story. You can marry him if you allow it to happen. Don't give up rather focus on being with him.
It's so hard to focus on us right now. Every visualisation of him leads to him and this girl...I hate it when my mind keeps wandering around about them.
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Blessedck wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
I've sent an email to lanie asked her what should I do with using lanie method for the situation of mine right now, she asked me to move on and attract someone better..she said she just figured out in life that if things are meant to be they will be..argh I'm so confused.
That is confusing. Why would she say such thing???
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Ikr, that's what I received this morning, I'm in shocked that she said so.. it kinda brings me down.
Dear Hisoneandonly, I think what Lanie meant is to detach yourself from the outcome. That is when you are happy, you attract happy moments. The basic law of attraction. It is much clear.
Everything happens for a reason. Either to be happy or to be happier
Sending you love and light!!!
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Sam wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Blessedck wrote:
That is confusing. Why would she say such thing???Β
Ikr, that's what I received this morning, I'm in shocked that she said so.. it kinda brings me down.She does mention this in her book, that sometimes it's just not meant to be. I just ignore that part. That is only her opinion. You get what you believe, so if that's what she believes then it will be true for her, but not true for you. Don't let what she said sway you, you can have whatever you want. Thousands of people have reunited with their loved one and it continues to happen every, even in the worst circumstances.
Hi Sam! Thank you for your hopes Your words cheers me up like all the time! Thankyou so muchΒ
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PrinceCharm wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Blessedck wrote:
That is confusing. Why would she say such thing???Β
Ikr, that's what I received this morning, I'm in shocked that she said so.. it kinda brings me down.Dear Hisoneandonly, I think what Lanie meant is to detach yourself from the outcome. That is when you are happy, you attract happy moments. The basic law of attraction. It is much clear.
Everything happens for a reason. Either to be happy or to be happier
Sending you love and light!!!
Hi PrinceCharm <3 Thanks for being there when i needed someone Im trying to attract happy moments now! Weird thing is, so many guys come and wanted to chat with me. But I did tell them I wasnt looking into something serious right now. I have to be true to myself that I only love him and wanted be with just himΒ
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Hi people that have gave me so many advice and hold me back when im lost, Im so lucky to have all of you here to treat me like a family Β
It's 30th of Dec now, yet i havent got the money to study abroad and things went weird these days. I wanted to study at kings college but the class starts at 4th Jan and i dont think i still got time to register. it also cost like 100k...my mom says she has no money to afford and asked me to not study in uk. im so stressed out right now.
Im also trying to just visualise us and try to ignore her but i dont have much confident..Any more help?
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
PrinceCharm wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
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Ikr, that's what I received this morning, I'm in shocked that she said so.. it kinda brings me down.Dear Hisoneandonly, I think what Lanie meant is to detach yourself from the outcome. That is when you are happy, you attract happy moments. The basic law of attraction. It is much clear.
Everything happens for a reason. Either to be happy or to be happier
Sending you love and light!!!Hi PrinceCharm <3 Thanks for being there when i needed someone
Im trying to attract happy moments now! Weird thing is, so many guys come and wanted to chat with me. But I did tell them I wasnt looking into something serious right now. I have to be true to myself that I only love him and wanted be with just himΒ
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Dear hisoneandonly, I am glad that you are getting back on the track. One small suggestion. Your action should reflect your thoughts. When you say you are serious about your guy be in that mode when you talk with others as well. Action speaks louder than voice.
Sending you Love and light!
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Hi people that have gave me so many advice and hold me back when im lost, Im so lucky to have all of you here to treat me like a family
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It's 30th of Dec now, yet i havent got the money to study abroad and things went weird these days. I wanted to study at kings college but the class starts at 4th Jan and i dont think i still got time to register. it also cost like 100k...my mom says she has no money to afford and asked me to not study in uk. im so stressed out right now.
Im also trying to just visualise us and try to ignore her but i dont have much confident..Any more help?
Dear Hisoneandonly, our mind is tricky. But we have control on what we allow to our mind. Make your mind believe that you already got your admission and believe till your mind has only positive thoughts about it. Detach from the outcome. Everything will fall in place! And most importantly, your action should match your thoughts.
Be happy! It is happening!
Sending you love and light!