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Last night I watched Veronica's video on manifesting a marriage proposal and started visualising my ex proposing to me and then visualized our wedding and first dance, today I got suggested to like a page on facebook that was an Indian page on weddings, my ex is currently in India with a girl who is his 'girlfriend' (I don't like to say to much about her because I don't want to give her any importance) but I wasn't looking up anything about India or weddings on the internet so it was pretty random and I thought a really good sign!
But then the negative sign was seeing a happy picture of them on facebook in India too, which seemed negative :s
I've just started the 25 day challenge but it's hard feeling so positive and sure just to get reminded of the annoying reality and then I have to go into the mindset that it's only temporary but it's hard... and I think I paid too much emotional attention to the negative today :/ any advice on how to stay in your perfect imagination reality? And does paying too much bad emotional attention by accident to seeing something stupid like a picture really delay the process?
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Dear ShootingStar, try doing meditation to channelize the thoughts. There are numerous videos available in youtube for the Law of Attraction affirmations. Listen to them time to time. Pick up your old hobbies or new ones to keep yourself busy. It will surely help.
Everything is going as per your intentions. Sending you love and light!
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Here is one of the link that I use while going to sleep. It will surely help you as it helps me.
If you need any help feel free to ask us. We are here to help you
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ok I have never listened to this kind of thing before but I'll start today thank you!
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ShootingStar wrote:
ok I have never listened to this kind of thing before but I'll start today
thank you!
You are welcome ShootingStar! All is well
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You don't have to even mention the girl. Forget it completely about it by revising your past. Visualize it in the way you want and only see this. If you see something negative, know it's your subconscious giving you a warning sign.....so when it happens just cancel it in your mind and visualize him saying to you 'I Love you'.
These days I write an apology letter to my guy ( I don't send it, i write it in my journal) if I catch up myself thinking about him in a negative way...I hope it will help
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Welcome to the forum I personally find facebook to cause negativity in myself I am drawn like a moth to a flame and then for days I am sad, frustrated and angry because I see things that don't matter but in the moment eat me alive steer clear of his facebook The situation doesn't matter SHE doesn't matter so give no attention to it Visualize only yourself and him don't visualize anything to do with her
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Don't overanalyze the signs, although they mean your surroundings are changing because of your new mindset. Continue with your visualization by focusing on your desired outcome. If you see them in your mind, stop your visualization and do other things. Then go back to your visualization again.
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I've attracted this same person back before a few times in the past, I know I can again, this time the circumstances are harder, I think maybe it's because it's the universe setting out challenges so we can realise one day when we're old just how meant to be we were for each other, that wild horses couldn't keep us away for too long and all the people who've come in between us are meaningless....it's harder this time because I sense he's losing faith in me and our relationship but I'm determined to push through and keep on believing, because it did work in the past for me and I just know it will again. It's hard that I have to forgive him for this little excursion but I will, again, because it's really unconditional love .