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Together · 12/25/2015 3:24 pm

Hello All,

This forum is so fantastic. There are so much positive people here and there is so much interesting content.
Thank you, thank you, you are so great !

My Question- is it normal that feelings go softer when doing RS ?

From my learnings, the secret is in the feeling, the method is less important. Now here is my question. My love has ignored me for 2 years now. (because I acted desperate) The first year I was just completely depressed, and last year I learned about the secret. But I was doubting often and I wanted to learn more about the technical background of LOA in order for my sub con to accept it. Finally the last month I have been practicing it consistently on a daily basis and keep myself very positive.. I have not a single doubt I will manifest all my desires. I always believed in our mutual love and LOA will do the rest. Though me and my love lived in different countries last years, we recently bumped into each other in a nightclub by accident. My love still didn't want to talk with me there and then - but I didnt care and acted confident and lovely, so I don't worry.

Now I noticed my feelings have become much less strong and much more stable. For instance last year, when I did a single visualization, I could absolutely feel my heart energy booming. Now I dont feel this so hard anymore. The feelings are much less strong. Now I still get happy whan I do visualization and when I look at vision boards, I can only smile, and feel happy when I see us together. But all by all my feelings are much less strong and I don't 'feel' it so hard as such. After all 2 years is a long time.

How does this impact the working ? If the feelings are less expressed. I cant feel heart energy so well..

I found about 3 or 4 people where people manifested their love after 2 years NC.. if you know more people who succeeded after 2 years of NC- please let me know :-)

Thank you in advance !

Last edited by Together (12/25/2015 3:26 pm)

PrinceCharm · 12/25/2015 3:31 pm

Dear Together, I understand what you say. Love is not only about attraction. It has lot more than that. It is also about feeling that calm sensation when you are with them. Don't doubt your love, it is still there within you.

Flow with the Universe and proceed with whatever you do as part of your inspired actions. It will take you to the right destination.

All is well!

Sending you love and light!

happygirl · 12/25/2015 3:43 pm

I havent been with my guy for more than two years, we speak every 6months for few weeks, then I go to NC as nothing major is happening and it just doesnt work for me that way, i am not the kind who can be happy for little i realized
anyway not many months ago, I did the RS and feeling him cuddling me for like 5 days, it felt very nice and pleasant but I wouldnt necessarily say it was very strong, then he out of the blue appeared in my country and he lives on different continent
i think what helped was that i wasnt attached at all, i didnt expect anything and it happened as a miracle
now i dont talk to him again as for me it just really doesnt work well when we talk
so i dont have a fully success story but when he was over here i felt that he is so much in love with me that it surprised me after so long time and all his behavior so in a way i know that if you can do the RS and visualize without getting too attached and expectant, something will happen for sure

barbidoll · 12/25/2015 4:26 pm

yes I have manifested several people into my life in the past several months who have gotten lost love back one woman after 36 years of NC and I have known her all this time so I know its absolutely true a woman I work with who is about 50 manifested her high school boyfriend and they are married Absolutely Yes you can get your love back in a perfect way

PrinceCharm · 12/25/2015 4:36 pm

barbidoll wrote:
yes I have manifested several people into my life in the past several months who have gotten lost love back one woman after 36 years of NC and I have known her all this time so I know its absolutely true a woman I work with who is about 50 manifested her high school boyfriend and they are married Absolutely Yes you can get your love back in a perfect way

Dear barbidoll, thank you for sharing the story. It is really motivational and help people to keep the hopes up!

Love5278 · 12/26/2015 12:57 am

Story I found ... "Hello guys...
Please ignore my English, spelling mistake, and MSN language...I didn’t have enough time as but I was so happy so that I could not wait long to share it with you all ..

I know there are many people who are trying to attract their ex. back into their life... few years’ back I was like that too. He is the reason I discovered the secret. I am very much grateful to him....

So here is how the story goes... we were long distance... we were in relation for like almost 3 years.. Then out of blue hurray he broke up with me... and he broke up with me because, I was negative all the time... Instead of imagining positive things I was imagining he was going to break up, he might be having affair with someone and all those stupid things.... guess what Loa behold , he did breakup... he just stopped talking at all, after few weeks of me continually, mailing him, calling him, texting him.. He just replied that he does not feel the same way anymore... that there is nothing left.. And that was it... he was gone....

I still kept up with my stupidity of massaging him, crying, not eating and all that..... Then I wanted to get out of find something to bring him back, end my pain, so I searched net, stumbled upon the secret....I made a wish I wanted him to be back, deep in my heart I believed this is not how it is going to end.. We will meet again for sure...

Recently his birthday came and I had this strong urged to send him a card, and wish him just simply happy birthday... So I did...

And guess what... After 3 years of no communication, He replied with thank you card, and said he wanted to talk, added me on facebook... And we can’t even say we haven’t had talked since 3 years. Guess what I found out he had messaged me 2 months back on the mail that I never used after breakup... He also did not use the id which we used to chat on but always checked it on his birthday.

He still remembers every tiny bit detail about me, about my family, about my like dislike...

It all took me while but slowly I pulled myself together, started telling myself things will get better if not him the right will guy come along, I will let the universe do its job... and just have faith... I opened myself to all the possibilities... it takes some time but rest assure that magic will happen when you use the correct spell....

Some people say it is not working, no matter how many time i visualise, how many times I write it down... The key is do u feel it, do you believe it, do you have faith... If we keep using the wrong spell, magic will happen not the magic we wanted to happen.

Do not by any means ever want someone for your ego it will never work... Have just pure loving intension.. As love is never based on any condition... love keeps loving without reason, or any conditions.

You need to really really forgive the person who hurt you and yourself for the mistakes you made.

Trust me you do not need someone to make you happy, be happy and it will all fall into place.... No matter how harsh words you have said or your ex. said....if you believe it, if you want it, it will happen.

There is always rainbow after rain, day after night... So keep believing and be happy with yourself.

Love and peace...Blessed be all

Follow your bliss"

Last edited by Love5278 (12/26/2015 12:58 am)

Together · 12/27/2015 2:50 pm

happygirl wrote:
I havent been with my guy for more than two years, we speak every 6months for few weeks, then I go to NC as nothing major is happening and it just doesnt work for me that way, i am not the kind who can be happy for little i realized
anyway not many months ago, I did the RS and feeling him cuddling me for like 5 days, it felt very nice and pleasant but I wouldnt necessarily say it was very strong, then he out of the blue appeared in my country and he lives on different continent
i think what helped was that i wasnt attached at all, i didnt expect anything and it happened as a miracle
now i dont talk to him again as for me it just really doesnt work well when we talk
so i dont have a fully success story but when he was over here i felt that he is so much in love with me that it surprised me after so long time and all his behavior so in a way i know that if you can do the RS and visualize without getting too attached and expectant, something will happen for sure

Hey Happygirl, thank you so much for this bright and wonderfull answer. I'm very happy that you have been so succesfull with the RS. I read your post today, and I feel the same as you I think - as I described more early. Never was I so excited and full of joy then 2 years ago.

Because of this, it might be that i might be resisting,.
But Im very happy for you that you still have contact with your love !

Thank you very much for the answer !

Together · 12/27/2015 3:07 pm

Love5278 wrote:
Story I found ... "Hello guys...
Please ignore my English, spelling mistake, and MSN language...I didn’t have enough time as but I was so happy so that I could not wait long to share it with you all ..

I know there are many people who are trying to attract their ex. back into their life... few years’ back I was like that too. He is the reason I discovered the secret. I am very much grateful to him....

So here is how the story goes... we were long distance... we were in relation for like almost 3 years.. Then out of blue hurray he broke up with me... and he broke up with me because, I was negative all the time... Instead of imagining positive things I was imagining he was going to break up, he might be having affair with someone and all those stupid things.... guess what Loa behold , he did breakup... he just stopped talking at all, after few weeks of me continually, mailing him, calling him, texting him.. He just replied that he does not feel the same way anymore... that there is nothing left.. And that was it... he was gone....

I still kept up with my stupidity of massaging him, crying, not eating and all that..... Then I wanted to get out of find something to bring him back, end my pain, so I searched net, stumbled upon the secret....I made a wish I wanted him to be back, deep in my heart I believed this is not how it is going to end.. We will meet again for sure...

Recently his birthday came and I had this strong urged to send him a card, and wish him just simply happy birthday... So I did...

And guess what... After 3 years of no communication, He replied with thank you card, and said he wanted to talk, added me on facebook... And we can’t even say we haven’t had talked since 3 years. Guess what I found out he had messaged me 2 months back on the mail that I never used after breakup... He also did not use the id which we used to chat on but always checked it on his birthday.

He still remembers every tiny bit detail about me, about my family, about my like dislike...

It all took me while but slowly I pulled myself together, started telling myself things will get better if not him the right will guy come along, I will let the universe do its job... and just have faith... I opened myself to all the possibilities... it takes some time but rest assure that magic will happen when you use the correct spell....

Some people say it is not working, no matter how many time i visualise, how many times I write it down... The key is do u feel it, do you believe it, do you have faith... If we keep using the wrong spell, magic will happen not the magic we wanted to happen.

Do not by any means ever want someone for your ego it will never work... Have just pure loving intension.. As love is never based on any condition... love keeps loving without reason, or any conditions.

You need to really really forgive the person who hurt you and yourself for the mistakes you made.

Trust me you do not need someone to make you happy, be happy and it will all fall into place.... No matter how harsh words you have said or your ex. said....if you believe it, if you want it, it will happen.

There is always rainbow after rain, day after night... So keep believing and be happy with yourself.

Love and peace...Blessed be all

Follow your bliss"

Hello love 5278
Hello and thank you so much for your answer on your question yesterday

Your story gave me so much hope !
Can I ask you these few small questions ?

1-- you did not contact your love at all during these 3 years ?? Before you sended the birthday card ? I have been sending my love every 4 or 5 months a small message for birthday, chritmas wishes and so. Sometimes I fear that I need to be in another Nocontact for another 3 years like you.. and this is to long for me to handle !

2-- where you still doing visualization and affirmations when your love returned your Birthday card ? Or did you stop long before that ? You gave up ?

3--I went really far with begging and was horrible out of control crying in front of my loves eyes.. I'm scared she will never forgive me and think she might be just scared of me in a way I guess....I know I should not look at the past.. but it is hard to ignore..

Thank you in advance for your answer. - Not expecting a big answer as Im asking your time.

have a good evening !

Together · 12/27/2015 3:12 pm

barbidoll wrote:
yes I have manifested several people into my life in the past several months who have gotten lost love back one woman after 36 years of NC and I have known her all this time so I know its absolutely true a woman I work with who is about 50 manifested her high school boyfriend and they are married Absolutely Yes you can get your love back in a perfect way

Regardless of how bad you have been ? Against all odds ?
I really love this person and I tried everything I could. Obviously I had to do it more controlled and relaxed.. but my heart was on fire..

Anyway key for me is to find happiness on my own, with love being absent.. that is the most difficult.. Im really sure I will manifest it once I'm happy on my own. But it is like the chicken or the egg I guess.

Love5278 · 12/27/2015 3:36 pm

Together wrote:
Love5278 wrote:
Story I found ... "Hello guys...
Please ignore my English, spelling mistake, and MSN language...I didn’t have enough time as but I was so happy so that I could not wait long to share it with you all ..

I know there are many people who are trying to attract their ex. back into their life... few years’ back I was like that too. He is the reason I discovered the secret. I am very much grateful to him....

So here is how the story goes... we were long distance... we were in relation for like almost 3 years.. Then out of blue hurray he broke up with me... and he broke up with me because, I was negative all the time... Instead of imagining positive things I was imagining he was going to break up, he might be having affair with someone and all those stupid things.... guess what Loa behold , he did breakup... he just stopped talking at all, after few weeks of me continually, mailing him, calling him, texting him.. He just replied that he does not feel the same way anymore... that there is nothing left.. And that was it... he was gone....

I still kept up with my stupidity of massaging him, crying, not eating and all that..... Then I wanted to get out of find something to bring him back, end my pain, so I searched net, stumbled upon the secret....I made a wish I wanted him to be back, deep in my heart I believed this is not how it is going to end.. We will meet again for sure...

Recently his birthday came and I had this strong urged to send him a card, and wish him just simply happy birthday... So I did...

And guess what... After 3 years of no communication, He replied with thank you card, and said he wanted to talk, added me on facebook... And we can’t even say we haven’t had talked since 3 years. Guess what I found out he had messaged me 2 months back on the mail that I never used after breakup... He also did not use the id which we used to chat on but always checked it on his birthday.

He still remembers every tiny bit detail about me, about my family, about my like dislike...

It all took me while but slowly I pulled myself together, started telling myself things will get better if not him the right will guy come along, I will let the universe do its job... and just have faith... I opened myself to all the possibilities... it takes some time but rest assure that magic will happen when you use the correct spell....

Some people say it is not working, no matter how many time i visualise, how many times I write it down... The key is do u feel it, do you believe it, do you have faith... If we keep using the wrong spell, magic will happen not the magic we wanted to happen.

Do not by any means ever want someone for your ego it will never work... Have just pure loving intension.. As love is never based on any condition... love keeps loving without reason, or any conditions.

You need to really really forgive the person who hurt you and yourself for the mistakes you made.

Trust me you do not need someone to make you happy, be happy and it will all fall into place.... No matter how harsh words you have said or your ex. said....if you believe it, if you want it, it will happen.

There is always rainbow after rain, day after night... So keep believing and be happy with yourself.

Love and peace...Blessed be all

Follow your bliss"
Hello love 5278
Hello and thank you so much for your answer on your question yesterday

Your story gave me so much hope !
Can I ask you these few small questions ?

1-- you did not contact your love at all during these 3 years ?? Before you sended the birthday card ? I have been sending my love every 4 or 5 months a small message for birthday, chritmas wishes and so. Sometimes I fear that I need to be in another Nocontact for another 3 years like you.. and this is to long for me to handle !

2-- where you still doing visualization and affirmations when your love returned your Birthday card ? Or did you stop long before that ? You gave up ?

3--I went really far with begging and was horrible out of control crying in front of my loves eyes.. I'm scared she will never forgive me and think she might be just scared of me in a way I guess....I know I should not look at the past.. but it is hard to ignore..

Thank you in advance for your answer. - Not expecting a big answer as Im asking your time.

have a good evening !

This wasn't my story it was a story that I found online

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