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Today is so not a good day.. knowing that she(the new gf) is staying at his house... what do you think they would do... my loa friend asked me to give up on my desire because she thinks that it's impossible, and she say loa would never help to let him love me, she also said that he never loved me before because he never admit that I'm his girlfriend and never hold my hands in public, she thinks that he only wants my body and no feelings towards me so it led me tought of his words "we'll never have future because I have no feelings for you anymore." I never wanted to give up on him because I know he will change but what now? I've been waiting for months and weeks... his family likes her and she's rich.. I keep seeing 1111 these days and his name too which I have no idea why! Can anyone help me to replace my thoughts with some hopes? and guide me what to do next? It's a hopeless and impossible situation right...?
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I feel ow today too, not because of my bf but because I spent the Xmas by myself as my family is not there for me for many years and is very hateful towards me
but when it comes to your friend and your bf - I think no matter if you will "give up" = stop thinking about it or keep doing what you do, I think the desire in you is there for a reason and also you can create new better relationship where he will love you fully
all you have to do for it is to believe that whatever you believe inside you, mainly about yourself, that a guy (any guy) will love you for who you are not for your body, will mirror in your life outsidee
it seems that you have low selfesteme and think that man love your body and there is nothing more to love, I would probably start there, this is the common thing and I used to have the same.
dont think about changing him that is quite impossible, you have to change yourself, the way you see yourself mainly and then only give him new role, the role you want him to play in your life, but it all have to start from your
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waiting is the lack attitude, dont wait for him or anything, just know and believe he is back and at the same time move on with your life as well as you can
nothing is impossible unless you believe that
the signs may be there for you to see you shouldnt give up
also try to thing that you are a gift to man and all the men are crazy about you, start with that i think and build it up slowly into anything can change any minute, things change all the time, people change and they also change their opinions
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I found this today and like it, maybe it will cheer you up :-)
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First of all, your "loa friend" doesn't understand the LOA at all and I would not suggest you talk to them about your problems anymore. If you need someone to talk to, come on here and talk to one of us. You can always message me.
LOA can help you with ANYTHING. Nothing is hopeless or impossible. And getting someone to love you is easy. It can happen instantly. You are focusing on the past too much. It doesn't matter how he felt about you in the past, you are creating a new future remember? The future does not depend on the past. He might be with his gf right now but that can change instantly. The more you think about how he's with her, the more you give energy to the situation. You are bringing them closer together by thinking about them together so stop it! Only think about the two of you together in a happy relationship. You are worthy of love and happiness! You are not any less worthy than anyone else. Stop comparing yourself to the other woman. Pretend you are already happy and secure in your perfect relationship. If you were, would you be worrying about her? No. She wouldn't even exist! It also doesn't matter how long it's been. The measurement of time is not real. It is something humans made up to keep track of things but energy doesn't obey our rules of time. So you can change your situation instantly if you change your thoughts.
It is very difficult to go from such a low state of hopelessness to a happy state so I suggest you try to get somewhere in the middle right now and then work your way up. First, you need to stop thinking about him. Focus on yourself for now. Sit down for 15 minutes and breathe. Concentrate on what's happening right now. Youtube has a lot of guided mindfulness meditations to help relax you so try one of those. Then I want you to go do something that you enjoy doing or talk to someone you love ( DONT talk to him and DONT talk about him at all). Just have fun. You are the most important person in your life and your happiness is most important so don't let him get in the way of your joy.
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Today is so not a good day.. knowing that she(the new gf) is staying at his house... what do you think they would do... my loa friend asked me to give up on my desire because she thinks that it's impossible, and she say loa would never help to let him love me, she also said that he never loved me before because he never admit that I'm his girlfriend and never hold my hands in public, she thinks that he only wants my body and no feelings towards me so it led me tought of his words "we'll never have future because I have no feelings for you anymore." I never wanted to give up on him because I know he will change but what now? I've been waiting for months and weeks... his family likes her and she's rich.. I keep seeing 1111 these days and his name too which I have no idea why! Can anyone help me to replace my thoughts with some hopes? and guide me what to do next? It's a hopeless and impossible situation right...?
Dear hisoneandonly, believe in yourself. Universe will respond to you. Universe is like your pet dragon. I use this metaphor because, only if you are strong by yourself, the universe can serve you. That's why the people who manifested what they want ask you to be happy and be confident about yourself.
Whenever you feel down or if someone give you negativity, just smile, even if it is fake. It will make you stronger. Everything will fall in place. Just remember, you are the creator of your life
On a side note, I also get those negative feelings but I push it hard saying you cannot beat me. I am strong and I am creating my life!
Sending you love and light!!!
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Also listen to this while you are sleeping or relaxing. It helps me and so it will help you as well
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happygirl wrote:
I feel ow today too, not because of my bf but because I spent the Xmas by myself as my family is not there for me for many years and is very hateful towards me
but when it comes to your friend and your bf - I think no matter if you will "give up" = stop thinking about it or keep doing what you do, I think the desire in you is there for a reason and also you can create new better relationship where he will love you fully
all you have to do for it is to believe that whatever you believe inside you, mainly about yourself, that a guy (any guy) will love you for who you are not for your body, will mirror in your life outsidee
it seems that you have low selfesteme and think that man love your body and there is nothing more to love, I would probably start there, this is the common thing and I used to have the same.
dont think about changing him that is quite impossible, you have to change yourself, the way you see yourself mainly and then only give him new role, the role you want him to play in your life, but it all have to start from your
Hi happygirl, Thank you so much for your advice and your positivity. I wanted to ignore about that girl right now but it seems to be a little difficult to me as when I wanted to think a beautiful scene between me and my guy... I would think that "no this can't happen because this girl exist." I think of myself as a beautiful girl and attracts a lot of guys to love me.. literally a few guys just come and chat with me but they didn't confess anything and just enjoy talking to me. Then I thought of, why I attracted them but not him?
And happygirl, I wanted to tell you that, you're not alone alright. You have us, your loa family. Hugs.
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TrustMe wrote:
First of all, your "loa friend" doesn't understand the LOA at all and I would not suggest you talk to them about your problems anymore. If you need someone to talk to, come on here and talk to one of us. You can always message me.
LOA can help you with ANYTHING. Nothing is hopeless or impossible. And getting someone to love you is easy. It can happen instantly. You are focusing on the past too much. It doesn't matter how he felt about you in the past, you are creating a new future remember? The future does not depend on the past. He might be with his gf right now but that can change instantly. The more you think about how he's with her, the more you give energy to the situation. You are bringing them closer together by thinking about them together so stop it! Only think about the two of you together in a happy relationship. You are worthy of love and happiness! You are not any less worthy than anyone else. Stop comparing yourself to the other woman. Pretend you are already happy and secure in your perfect relationship. If you were, would you be worrying about her? No. She wouldn't even exist! It also doesn't matter how long it's been. The measurement of time is not real. It is something humans made up to keep track of things but energy doesn't obey our rules of time. So you can change your situation instantly if you change your thoughts.
It is very difficult to go from such a low state of hopelessness to a happy state so I suggest you try to get somewhere in the middle right now and then work your way up. First, you need to stop thinking about him. Focus on yourself for now. Sit down for 15 minutes and breathe. Concentrate on what's happening right now. Youtube has a lot of guided mindfulness meditations to help relax you so try one of those. Then I want you to go do something that you enjoy doing or talk to someone you love ( DONT talk to him and DONT talk about him at all). Just have fun. You are the most important person in your life and your happiness is most important so don't let him get in the way of your joy.
Aww trustme, youre so sweet and nice! Yes, I will message you soon
How do I ignore that girl with this situation? Getting him to love me is not easy at all..he keeps on following up with my snaps. He only reads a few people's story. So if I snap one of my friend, he would look at theirs too, if I didn't it would be a less chance for him to look at them...But I didn't know what to think about this, it's like my only thoughts it's not real.. my that loa friend says that I used loa to run away from the reality of he don't love me anymore. She asked me to move on as she said she sees no hope between us.. it's really hard for me to stand right back up now.. I used to beat all those negative things away like when I know he has a g2g I would think of, "it's okay, he will realise I'm better than her and he still have feelings for me that's why he needs someone to replace me." But now, I don't know what to think of. I focus on my life, have fun etc but I still didn't see any progress or hear anything from him..it's like, I have failed once so I'm so afraid to try once again..
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You fail because you are still telling the same story you were months and months ago. Where there is another girl and he is difficult, and that LOA doesn't work for you. You have to understand that LOA is working perfectly, reflecting exactly what you are fearing. You can't try to possess a person, because they will run for the hills with that kind of energy. You have to work on yoyrself, so that you feel better about YOU. So that you put less importance on him, and more on YOU. This is no competition between yourself and a bunch of his other suitors- it's about you and you. If you can get to a place where you understand your own self-worth, your own power and beauty.. Then he will feel it and you will attract him back. But this energy of deliberately trying to prevent him from thinking of other women- it's really unattractive. And unnecessary. If you poured as much attention into yourself as you do into focussing on all the other women in his life, he would turn back to you. Something to ponder. 💜